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A friend of mine....and her boyfriend
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 3:00 pm
There is a guy that have known for a while, but he has been dating a not-so-close friend of mine for most of that time. Over the times that we have spent together, or just chatted online, I've begun to fall deeper and deeper in love with him. I have known that I loved him for a while now, but did not want to ruin our friendship if he didn't feel the same way. A few days ago, he said that he liked me a lot, and wanted me as more than a friend. He was STILL dating the other girl, when he asks me to be his girlfriend. I want to explain why I rejected him, but I'm not sure how. And I also want to know what I should do about my feelings for the highlight of my life. Who just happens to be taken by someone else. I've already tried to forget about...
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Hard To Trust People
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:46 am
I can't trust people. I have had a weird experience growing up, and I find it very difficult to trust people. It seems like everyone I get close to and trust hurts me very badly in the end. But lately it has been catching up to me and actually preventing friendships, because it hurts people's feelings when I don't trust them. My boyfriend tells me how much he cares about me and how he loves me, but I just don't believe it. I don't think he is lying, but I just can't trust him. What can I do to work on this?
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Boyfriend Controls Me
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:39 am
I am an 18-year-old female and I feel as though my boyfriend controls me. He limits the girls I can talk to and talking to guys is definitely out of the question. In turn I feel as though I should do the same to him, so I do. Except I won't simply tell him to not go out at all. I will tell him to not go out 5 times a week, get drunk with his friends and pick up underage girls. Yet, I still feel guilty for telling him not to do this because I feel as though I have stooped down to his level and that I am now controlling him. He makes me feel this way as well. I love him, we are very close and have been dating for a long while, but what should I do?
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Partner Is A Compulsive Liar
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:37 am
I have been with my partner for over 4 years and have known deep down he has a problem. He is a compulsive liar. It is scary to think about he has lied to me about but I still stick with him through thick and thin. He has lied about having a twin brother, he has lied about his brother having HIV, he has lied about his grandparents dying, he has stolen thousands of pounds from me and tried to lie to get his way out of that too. He has lied about so many things I dont know what is true anymore. I want to help him but feel I dont know how much longer I can take being like this. I do love him and want to help him but dont know how. Every time I try to talk to him about things he looses it and end up beating me up or trashing our flat. He has sa...
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Could I be pregrant
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:01 am
Im a female and Im 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday and it was my first time. And it was unprotected sex and I was on my period. Is there a higher risk now that I could get pregrant?
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kissing
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 10:57 am
me and my bf still haven't kissed yet and I don't know why, but for some reason...I want him to do it first. Do you think he'll kiss me anytime soon?
Also, how could you tell if your bf really loves you?
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what guy should i choose
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 10:55 am
2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.
Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me
Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
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are looks everything?
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 6:47 am
hi...ive recently jus started goin out with this guy, and i realli love him.
the problem is .. he isnt the type of guy (looks wise) i wudda gone for .. the only reason im goin out with him is because of his personality and caring side...is this stupid?
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what am i supposed to do ?
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 2:40 am
13/f
wow.. after our break up and it was almost our 3rd month i love him alot. and next thing i know it im going through a break up and hes ignoring me like a mother freaker. i hope he regrets it. seriously, i havent gotten any answers yet.. like why cant we just be friends? why didn't he tell me he wanted me to change instead of saying "its over." and leave me there thinking why. idk what to do.. he looks happier than i am.. which makes me more sasd. what am i supposed to do... leave him alone give him space and let him hate me? it was one little break up.. and it turns to something serious. my friend says if i like him alot.. and its worth it, go after him.. but im not the one supposed to go after him. I want him back, an...
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help is needed
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 1:30 am
alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for several months now and i love him alot, and he says he loves me and he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and so do i, but when he talks to like any girl even my best friend i get really paranoid and he gets even more paranoid if i talk to a guy. how can we both stop getting paranoid with each other when we talk to the opposite sex?
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am i waiting for something that will never happen?
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 1:12 am
this guy (chris) and me kinda were going out... (too long to post here sorry.. try to fallow..) and it got broken up .. a few times... but not by us... (im 15 and hes 18 but love knows no age, and we live a state apart..) and than i had to go and take care of my problems and he waited for me... well i by the time i got back and relized he was waiting... i was in a relationship.. and so i dumped my bf.. (it wasnt healthy anyways thats another story..) but when i was talking 2 Chris and i told him than i was singal he was like.. "ohh well now i found someone.." so now im sitting here and i think about him all the time... and im waiting for him... but is he a lost cause...? am i letting other hunks slid cuz im waiting... i dont know ...
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getting over a boy
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 11:27 pm
i still remember the realitionship.. it was great. it was everything i had hoped for.. i got my first kiss and i felt like i was flying above clouds and stuff. then it ended like out of no where. this was a few months ago. we have remained friends.. and sometimes i wish i could go back and be with him. he was the only time in my life i was ever truely happy. i still get butterflies for guys but they are nothing to the ones i got with him. any advice on how to maybe get passed the past?
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My bf and i can NEVER be alone!!!!!!!! help!
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 10:49 pm
14/f
OK so my bf is my neighbor, wait scratch that we arent rly going out PUBLICLY, so its GOTTA BE A SECRET. We need a place to make out but whenever we r together it is at my house or his and his sis is my best friend... so when she spends the night i tell her to call him and say she forgot her toothbrush or something and then he walks over and we JUST talk... its kinda wierd like that... where is there a place where we can be truly alone w\ out like, being in public? *open to any suggestions
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... kissing my girlfriend
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 9:09 pm
Hey-
I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too
the problem is that we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem
the problem is- I want to kiss her (not make out just kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it
Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help
-premature kisser
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Guy Trouble
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 9:08 pm
ok well im "friends with benefits" with this guy and its been awhile now and weve hung out a few times but he still hasnt made a move...so i wanna kno what are the signs that he is gonna? and how can i tell if he even wants to anymore? please help this is really urgent...ill rate high
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this guy and another guy
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 8:32 pm
i am 14/f
there is this guy that i like and he knows i like him. but i don't know if he likes me, i still have to ask. i know how to do that part, but there is this other guy i just met and im always partnered up with him in health.
the question is, should i like the first guy and forget about (not completely) the second guy, or should i find out if the first guy likes me and still like the second guy anyway, or should i do something else. i need some guy help. thanx.
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feeling bad
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 7:53 pm
well me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 6 months im sure hes the one i want to spend forever with. But theres only one problem, i feel terrible all the time, i mean when we fight i always feel like its my fault,when he talks to other girls and i tell myself there just his friends it still makes me feel horrible,and even little things if like he doesnt say bye b4 hanging up the phone and i dont want this terrible feeling to go on. any advice on if this is normal, and how to fix it.
anything is apreciated
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flirting
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 5:49 pm
my gf is always flirting with this other guy at my school and it really pisses me off cuz she barly talks to me anymore can someone tell me a way to get her bak to me
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guy help, duh!
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 4:47 pm
ok so i've been talking to this guy online and we never have anything to talk about!
what are some things we can talk about?
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this guy!!
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 4:23 pm
ok so there's this guy i like and he told my friend for me to c ome talk to him after school... but when i wa lked out of the classroom he was right behind me but then he turned right and i turned left and i never got to talk to him... so should i try to talk to him tommorow or not?
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