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what am i supposed to do ?
13/f
wow.. after our break up and it was almost our 3rd month i love him alot. and next thing i know it im going through a break up and hes ignoring me like a mother freaker. i hope he regrets it. seriously, i havent gotten any answers yet.. like why cant we just be friends? why didn't he tell me he wanted me to change instead of saying "its over." and leave me there thinking why. idk what to do.. he looks happier than i am.. which makes me more sasd. what am i supposed to do... leave him alone give him space and let him hate me? it was one little break up.. and it turns to something serious. my friend says if i like him alot.. and its worth it, go after him.. but im not the one supposed to go after him. I want him back, and i promised that i would change just for him. But then.. he wont listen to what im trying to tell him or say to him.. its either hes ignoring me or he reads the question or stuff im sending him but doesn't reply.
PLEASE HELP. i have alot of shit in my life now.
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Well first of all I'm sorry this happened to you, but there's no need for you to change for anyone, especially a boy at 13. If you go after him and try to get him back.. all the while he's ignoring you, it pretty much shows him that he won and he'll probably keep ignoring you knowing that it hurts you. Some boys are like that. Definitly just give him some space, you could use it too. Stop worrying so much about him and just go on with your life no matter how hard it is. If he wants to be with you he can talk to you himself. Why dwell over someone who doesn't want you, when there could be a million other people who DO want you. If you move on and find another boy, he might see that you really are moving on and he might try to get you back. So really there could be a thing in the future, you never know. Just give it time. Sometimes you really do want what you can't have..
=] Evy
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He's not worth being with.
If he liked you that much, he wouldn't want you to change. And you sound like a nice person too.
Don't let any guy change you. It's not right.
If he won't answer you or give you a reason why then forget him.
You have to be happy. Try to be happier then him.
Sometimes it takes a while for a guy to realize what he did. Maybe he's not ready to be in a relationship. Commitment may be scaring him. I don't know.
[maybe he seems happy but he's not, you never know.]
Boyfriends at age 13 usually don't work out.
You really need to forget him though if he won't answer you.
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Ok first of all CALM DOWN!!! Thats the first important thing. second of all this guy is not worth it. if he cant be friends with you and he didnt tell you what you did then something is waaay wrong. usually when a girl and a guy break up they say lets be friends and then they talk but dont hang out. i mean if you really really like him still send him a note on paper asking him what you did and why you guys cantt be friends and if he ignores confront him and say "ok what is wrong? why did you break up with me what did i do and i know your gonna ignore me but i still really like you and if i need to i can change. please answer my note!"
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