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A friend of mine....and her boyfriend
There is a guy that have known for a while, but he has been dating a not-so-close friend of mine for most of that time. Over the times that we have spent together, or just chatted online, I've begun to fall deeper and deeper in love with him. I have known that I loved him for a while now, but did not want to ruin our friendship if he didn't feel the same way. A few days ago, he said that he liked me a lot, and wanted me as more than a friend. He was STILL dating the other girl, when he asks me to be his girlfriend. I want to explain why I rejected him, but I'm not sure how. And I also want to know what I should do about my feelings for the highlight of my life. Who just happens to be taken by someone else. I've already tried to forget about him, but I can't do it.
Always,
Lysistrata
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if he was dating someone when he told you that he likes you then that kind of tells you what type of a guy he is. think about it be fore you act. does he still go out with the girl or did he break up with her
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You did good to reject him...
because he is still dating another girl....
You deserve a guy who will put you in the first place not second ..He wanted to start a relationship with you while he was dating another girl and that's cheating and believe me if he did it with this girl ..what will stop him to do it to you!!!
Just go ahead and tell him that you rejected him because he is already dating another girl..
Maybe you could not see or hear from him a couple of weeks..that may help to forget him
Try to meet new people and who knows there may be some cute singles hahahah lol
Good luck
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I would first explain to him that you rejected him because he still had a girlfriend and that just wouldn't be right as much as you'd love to date him and everything. And tell him he shouldn't take it as like, you don't like him or something because you do. But if I were you, I would go for it. Sometimes, like the person below me said, love is a risk. I mean, I've had times where me and my friend really both liked the same guy alot and I wound up going out with him and it crushed her, yeah, but I figured "I could possibly lose a friend, but gain a friend and something greater." If you really love this guy, you should go for it. Besides, not too sound too harsh or anything, if you and the person aren't that close of friends, it's not like it's your best friend or something, right? Cause if it was your best friend, that'd be a whole nother ballgame, but luckily it's not haha. But the only thing I'd talk to him about if you two DO go out, ask him,"Are you going to do what you did to your last girlfriend to me? Just wind up liking another girl and dumping me for her cause I really don't want that to happen." Cause if he's just going to do the same thing, I wouldn't bother going out with him then. I hope I helped. <3
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Hey-
If you like him and he likes you- You should go out!
I know it might seem like you'll ruin your friendship.. but sometimes love requires risk..
I took a risk with going out with one of my friends (my current girlfriend now).. and it worked out VERY well.. we're very happy together and we love each other a lot...
taking the risk can lead to great things- so you should go for it!
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