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Love Triangle
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:08 pm
Im sorry this will be long, but please bear with me. I started talking to this guy a few months back, and we really hit it off. Problem was, he was hiding the fact that he has a girlfriend. Me and his girlfriend talked, and we were friendly with each other, but one day she said "I dont want you two to talk, I think youre getting too close" and she was right..we said we loved each other every time we talked, and we hung out a lot. We never kissed, but we held hands, and just did all the cutesy stuff. Things happened, and me and this guy stopped talking for a few days because we were fighting. Neither of us could stand it, we missed each other, so we started hanging out again. We eventually hooked up, and through a bit of trickery b...
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My guy friend & my best friend..
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 9:05 pm
Ok so, my bset friend of my whole life went out with this guy, who is also one of my good friends. They fought all the time when they were going out and he finally dumped her, because apparently he liked me the whole time. Now that he's single he keeps wanting to hang out with me and talk to me all the time and I think my best friend is starting to get jealous. Me and this guy have always been really close, we're like twins and i know if we were a couple it would be really fun and go well. But the problem is, I think i like this guy too. So what should I do? Go out with him and talk to my best friend about it? Or just wave him off and hurt his feelings?
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me and muh ex
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 8:10 pm
ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!!
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2 boyfriends.
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:50 pm
so I have 2 boyfriends. I'm not a hoe like you would think. I mean I'm nothing like that. but the first boy I am going out with I am prob going to dump after his birthday which is tomorrow. cuz there's too many things. i really don't like rude guys and he's rude. and then my other boyfriend i just started to go out with yesterday. i know i'm doing the wrong thing but i know that i'm prob gonna dump him. it's not that i want the other guy it's just i dont like my first boyfriend anymore. i'm sorry but i'm not sure what to say to him. please help me. thank you.
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Deadlock!
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:25 pm
Great, just great. I found out the guy that was my friend liked me. Fine. It made me so happy! But then, the other day, another of my guy friends started a note with me that told me this guy was a jerk. So today we started another note, and out of nowhere this guy tells me he likes me too! Now I don't know what to do, especially because there's yet ANOTHER guy in my English class I might be interested in too. I don't know what to do, and I can't say anything to either of them...
Please, don't say...
1. Which do you like best? They're BOTH my good friends.
2. Do you like one of them? I don't know. Since this happened, I've had mixed feelings.
3. You're boy crazy! I am NOT. These two came up out of nowhere, while ...
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Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:25 pm
how do you talk to someone you really like. i am so nervous about doing it. we know each other very well. from talking on the computer. but face to face, i just cant do it. how do i seem calm and collective? i want him to like me.
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Just this guy...
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 6:40 pm
So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just fo...
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Jealousy and Love and Confusion.
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 4:16 pm
This is going to be really long, so please stick with me.
Last week, I found out that my boyfriend was flirting with someone that hangs out where his sister works. I was kinda sorta okay with it, since I know that he means nothing by it and its just his personality. But then one of my cousins went to go get her hair done by his sister while he was there. My boyfriend doesn't know my cousin. Well, this girl was really like seriously flirting with him and he was just trying to tell her that he loved me and would never cheat on me and to stop flirting and all. But she didn't stop.
Well I'm death in one ear, and 50% in the other, so when I talk on the phone, I can only hear what the person who is talking on the p...
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break up or not break up? i want ur opinion!
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 2:21 pm
hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!!
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sex
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 2:12 pm
how do you have sex what do u got to do?
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Does my boyfriend need to grow up?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 1:20 pm
I curentally live with my boyfriend and his great family. Everything is great except I wonder one thing, he is 19 years old and anytime we go anywhere he mom calls to see where we are and when we are going to be home, he also cant go a day without talking to her, and can never stand up for himself when she says no. She also calls him habebe whichs means "my baby", and she says she dosent like it when he is out late. I understand she is worried but he is 19 years old and I thought at 19 they would be a man. Mabye I am wrong but I was thinking of marring this guy because he is the love of my life but I dont wanna marry someone who is attached to there mother and can never grow up and be a man. Mabye its just me But i would really love any advice anyone can give me! Thank yOU!!
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I think I made a mistake about a guy
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 1:16 pm
Ok, I'm female 17. I found out that one of my best guy friends liked me, and I told him I didn't want to mess up our friendship, and so I didn't want to go out with him. Well since he told me, our frienship has already been messed up.But yesterday, I was thinking that maybe we should go out. So I told him I would, but then I started thinking about all the bad things that can go wrong, and that I really don't like him as much as he likes me. I know everything I did was a mistake, but right now I just need some advice, anything really. Right now my head is spinning.
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oh no! im in love! HELP ME! this is not good. 15/fm
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:49 am
oh man, oh man, oh man.. how did i let this happen? I'm in love! And it's not a good thing. He is the last person I should be falling in love with! He is soooo in love with his ex girlfriend (they dated for five years and he can see a future with her.. and he's only 17!) not only.. he lives on the other side of the planet! i only see him once a year (im seeing him this christmas.. i think) this is bad. I think about him ALL THE TIME. And I'm not over reacting, every little thing makes me think of him! EVERYTHING! Like I can be watching TV, and a song he likes comes on (which makes me think of him) so I change the channel.. and there's a commercial about peanutbutter, which makes me think of him because i saw him eating a peanut butter sandw...
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Why won't he ask me out?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:02 am
Ok well, there's this guy who I really like. We flirt quite a bit, he hugs me and becomes very playful when we're alone and we seemed to get along really well from the beginning. He also opens up about very personal things and we've only known eachother a couple of months! Does that mean something? He's always telling me that he thinks I'm cute and sexy. I mean, the other night, he told me that if my sister wasn't with us, he would of kissed me! Now the thing is, he keeps bringing up one thing: the age difference. I'm 16, he's 30. Now, I know that's quite an age gap but we really like eachother. Do you think the age thing is what's stopping him from asking me out? He's friends with my parents and he knows that they don't have a problem with...
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could i be pregnant
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 6:45 am
i'm 16 and been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we havn't had sex but we mess around alot, he's fingered me and i've done stuff to him. one day a few months ago we was messing around and his penis was close to my hole. it was my first month of being on the pill and i've had my periods since. but i've also read symptons that i think i've been experiencing. i've felt "fluttering, sick, i've put on weight and my boobs have got bigger. he's told me i'm worrying over nothing and do to a test if i'm really worried. but couls i be pregnant?
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my bf is a hypocrite
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 5:15 am
My bf is such a hypocrite. Well for starters he is about 30 pounds overweight. I am about average; and he keeps telling me I need to lose 20 pounds although he never thinks he has a weight problem. He also gets upset if he thinks I'm too friendly with the opposite sex; but he flirts outragiously right in front of me. He also has said the he thinks he's smarter then me even though I know a lot more things like about movie and television trivia and mental health and other topics than he knows. He thinks he's king sh_t. It is really beginning to tick me off. He also copies ideas of mine and passes them off as his own and he never gives me any credit for them. Should I confront him? He really needs a reality check before his head swells up any more.
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be a good friend or get the guy?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 2:44 am
so i went to this camp with my best friend alexa. we started hanging out with a bunch of guys.in our bunk at night we were talking about who we liked and we realized we both liek the same guy steven. a few nights later we found out steven might like alexa. but she told me she wasnt gunna go out with him or anything cause i liked him. throughout camp he made some moves on her but she did nothing. then i told her i didnt like him so she would have her first hookup. towards end of camp she still did nothing with him. then he told my other friend christina that he would have rather gone out with me. i do still like him but idk if i should go out with him cause that would be really mean to alexa.
please help =]
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She loves him more than me
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 2:19 am
Hello well i just broke with my girlfriend today and it was 1 month only. me and her had met in school before and had this really big crush on each other but things didnt work out and we never got to express how we feel toward each other then i started dating this girl for two years and that ended horribly, during my two year relationship i thought of her and lost contact. 3 months after the two years i meet my ex we exchange numbers and ended up hooking up, she told me she had just finished a relationship with this guy from london it was those long term ones and it lasted a year then she broke up with him because he wasnt physically attracted to her, she tells me that i mean so to her much and she did also to me, besides i just finished a ...
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i dont know what to do with this boy!
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 1:04 am
this boy and i have been hanging out this summer and we've gone as far as holding hands and stuff. he seems shy and hasnt told me he likes me yet, but my friends think its obvious because of how sweet he is to me. i dont know how to make the first move, and i just dont know what to do. i like him, but he hasnt told me he likes me back.
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2 guys, one girl, whose getting lucky?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 12:27 am
I'm 13 and I'm a girl
there are 2 guys. one (we'll call him T) i knew for 2 weeks and one (we'll call him E) i knew for 8 weeks and both were during the summer. Both of them liked me. T is peverted, but fun. and E is sweet and shy and nice. Both of them don't go to my school and both of them asked me out, but i said no cause i wouldn't see them all school year. E i will see again once over the school year and then next summer for a few weeks, but T i will not see ever again unless i make plans with him ( but he lives far away) . I like both of them and I don't know if i should stop talking to T online, and just forget him or what should i do? By the way, both of them don't know about eachother cause I met them at diff...
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