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my bf is a hypocrite
My bf is such a hypocrite. Well for starters he is about 30 pounds overweight. I am about average; and he keeps telling me I need to lose 20 pounds although he never thinks he has a weight problem. He also gets upset if he thinks I'm too friendly with the opposite sex; but he flirts outragiously right in front of me. He also has said the he thinks he's smarter then me even though I know a lot more things like about movie and television trivia and mental health and other topics than he knows. He thinks he's king sh_t. It is really beginning to tick me off. He also copies ideas of mine and passes them off as his own and he never gives me any credit for them. Should I confront him? He really needs a reality check before his head swells up any more.
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Yes you DEFENITLY need to confront him. What kind of bf does stuff like that?! I think if he doesn't straighten up soon... you should probably leave him. No guy should treat a girl like that. i'm sure you deserve better. cuz that is REALLY messed up.
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Yes, definately confront him about this. If he still continues to act like this, you definately should get rid of him. You deserve better and you don't deserve to be treated liek crap. It might be hard but you may be better off without someone putting you down&being such a hypocrite. I hope i helped!
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yes, definitely confront this issue. however, be careful, try to be civil about it, and phrase it in a way he can understand, rather than it sound like you are attacking him. But on a totally side note, i kno youre not asking about dumping him, but it sounds like you could do a lot better than this jerk. You still can tell him all thats bothering you, but sweetheart this guy is NOT worth your time.
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Yes, he is a hypocrite and a very insecure one at that. This is evidenced by the way he projects his problems and shortcomings onto you. When someone attributes things they don't like about themselves onto someone else, they are not being rational or accepting reality. Likely he was raised in a critical environment and fears being imperfect. You have probably already confronted him in some ways, but he will not likely listen. He is too afraid to be human, to have faults, and weaknesses. A person like this has a hard time believing that anyone would love the real him and that he has to protect himself with a false front. This kind of person is often privately the most critical of himself...a self-loather. It is good that you are not accepting of this behavior, and want to stand up for yourself. However, you must determine how long you are willing to put up with it in the likely event that he will refuse to confront his own demons. You might have a better chance at reaching him if you can do so gently and in a non-threatening way, otherwise he will shut you out immediately, because it will be too painful for him to hear critisism. You are his girlfriend and have no obligation to stay with him, nor are you capable of saving him from himself. If things continue without a marked change in him, consider moving on.
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Yes,you should confront him,tell him how he has an issue but that he should admit it,that it could be fixed if he decides to change his ways with you,that boyfriend,girlfriend should be able to communicate,understand each other,and as well as respect each other the way it should be.
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you say this is your boyfriend?welll he should never ever treat anyone like that this could be a sign that he is abusive in the long run my cousin went through almost exactly wat you are untill she finally ran away if you truly do love him suggest couseling if he does not go for it that could be another sign if it is because of the cost there is free ones out there but yes confront but becareful he may start to phiscaly abuse you when he is mad i am sorry i have been so blunt with you i just know this is how it all started with my cousin and since then i dont want any girls to go through that she changed completly wouldnt even laugh and she always laughed so remember who you are and your morals let no one change them for you if you see the signs too dplease leave dont live in denial i know you could do better than that any one can just becareful ok you can email me at mizztalk_alot@hotmail.com
tell me how it goes PLEASE
~nikki~
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Ofcourse you should confront him.If you dont,itl get bigger and bigger till one day you just BLOW UP in his face.Tell him to be fair and treat you nicely if he expects to be treated good.If he denys all that then i see no reason why you should be with this guy.
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