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Why won't he ask me out?
Ok well, there's this guy who I really like. We flirt quite a bit, he hugs me and becomes very playful when we're alone and we seemed to get along really well from the beginning. He also opens up about very personal things and we've only known eachother a couple of months! Does that mean something? He's always telling me that he thinks I'm cute and sexy. I mean, the other night, he told me that if my sister wasn't with us, he would of kissed me! Now the thing is, he keeps bringing up one thing: the age difference. I'm 16, he's 30. Now, I know that's quite an age gap but we really like eachother. Do you think the age thing is what's stopping him from asking me out? He's friends with my parents and he knows that they don't have a problem with the age issue. Also, he just got out of an 8 year relationship. He hates his ex but could that be another problem? He keeps telling me about his little girl and he shows me pictures of her. He asked me if I like kids so was he hinting at something? Just recently though, he told me that he's not worth a girl like me. Maybe his insecurity's a problem but I don't think he knows just how much I care for him. Again, like I said, he tells me all the time that he likes me but I just wanna know if things are gonna progress. Plus, he's moving in like a month and I don't wanna let what we have go to waste and he feels the same. Please help me!!!
Female, 16
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Wait until you are 18, then if you still like him you can do whatever you want. If he's 30 and you are 16, that's illegal and there is something wrong with him.
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Thats kinda disturbing, that a 30 year old guy, can't find someone his own age, & hes liking a sixteen year old. Seriously, this guy is like weird. When he was 14, you were like just born, or whatever. I most deffently think thats the reason hes not asking you out, atleast he has a little bit of common sense. He has a kid too? My god. You should ask your parents.. if they'd care if you dated him, & if they say yes... then uh okay, tell him that like, its not a big deal & such.. When he was asking you if you liked kids, he was probaly just asking & making conversation. But, since he does like a 16 year old.. then eh maybe he does want to marry you & start a family. Even though thats tottaly weird, because you two arn't even dating yet? But, ok. I'd see if your parents even really approve on it. I know there is no age on 'love' or whatever... but a decade, is a pretty big difference.
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Express your feelings to him before he leaves,don't wait till the last minute because you may regret it.He may not want to ask you out because he probably feels you should be with guys your age,fears that he'll get old soon,you'll lose interest in him,and he won't be able to handle it.If you feel that it is love you have for him then don't think twice do what you have to so he see's that age doesn't mean anything to you,and how much you want to be with him.
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