how do you talk to someone you really like. i am so nervous about doing it. we know each other very well. from talking on the computer. but face to face, i just cant do it. how do i seem calm and collective? i want him to like me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Friday August 25 2006, 1:59 pm: Just take silent long breaths before or while you're talking to him, and just think of it like you're talking to one of your best friends. But, don't treat him like he's your best friend, flirt a little and joke around and be silly. But whenever you're talking to him, ask him about his life and what he likes to do and stuff, it'll show him you're more interested in him than yourself, like some girls are. And sometimes, it's even ok so be a little nervous and stuff, whenever I talk to guys I really like sometimes and they flirt with me a little, my face can turn red [ and I find it extremely embarassing ] but they find it cute cause I guess they like knowing they made me blush and stuff. And remember: just be yourself. :] I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
girlmeetsboy answered Thursday August 24 2006, 2:33 am: i sometimes have the same problem,
all you have to do is breath whenever you get a little nervous.
be cooky and funny but most of all be yourself.
just know that hes not paying much attention to what you look like.
Cux answered Thursday August 24 2006, 1:30 am: Hey-
what you need to do is be yourself
ask him how he is and what he's been up to lately..
Just keep your confidence and talk about things you talk to with other guy friends of yours
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