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oh no! im in love! HELP ME! this is not good. 15/fm
oh man, oh man, oh man.. how did i let this happen? I'm in love! And it's not a good thing. He is the last person I should be falling in love with! He is soooo in love with his ex girlfriend (they dated for five years and he can see a future with her.. and he's only 17!) not only.. he lives on the other side of the planet! i only see him once a year (im seeing him this christmas.. i think) this is bad. I think about him ALL THE TIME. And I'm not over reacting, every little thing makes me think of him! EVERYTHING! Like I can be watching TV, and a song he likes comes on (which makes me think of him) so I change the channel.. and there's a commercial about peanutbutter, which makes me think of him because i saw him eating a peanut butter sandwich once! ITS A COMMERCIAL ABOUT PEANUTBUTTER FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! I don't understand how this happened, I mean ive always known i found him attractive and funny.. i guess ive always had more or less of a crush on him, but now its serious..its all i think about. wherever i am. I mean im turning down fun stuff, like going to the movies, or playing basketball with the hottest guy at school, because id rather lay in my bed and think about him, does that sound weird? im freakin obsessed! and i dont even know how he feels about me.. well, thats a lie.. i know he kind of likes me, but he said he wants his ex back. he's so amazing! everytime i hear the words incredible, romantic, wonderful.. etc, i think of him! just because of a word! EVERY song i hear is not related to him. I've seriously found a way to make EVERYTHING in my life about this boy (i kid you not, EVERYTHING!) its like my whole life revolves around him, what should i do? please help me!
thaank youu!
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Oh my goodness, lol. I would seriously not sit there and revolve your life around him, I think it's a waste. And we only have one life to live, so we gotta make it good. I would still talk to him and everything, but if you know he likes you a little, I would let him know how you feel. Well, don't explain it to him like THAT, you might freak him out a bit haha, but just be like,"I know you still really like your ex and everything, but I really like you and all, and I think [ know ] you sort of like me a little bit, and I'd really like a chance to make that "sort of" more than "sort of". [ or something like that basically, let him know of your feelings. ] But if he's still hung over about his ex, I'd seriously move on, hang out with your friends, enjoy your life, and try and find another guy. I mean, I used to be like that too, I was obsessed also with this guy, and then I got over him and yeah, whenever I see some commercials and hear some songs, they make me think of him and stuff because of old jokes or something we had, but I just sit there and I'm like,"Haha [his name]", and I just continue to do whatever I was doing. I hope I helped. <3
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I mean honestly pull yourself together child! haha your 15 he is seventeen, not really a big age difference, but if he is in love with his ex who he has been dating for 5 years, you really dont stand a chance, I dont mean to sound mean at all, I'm just not goign to sugar coat what I need to say. I know how you feel though, I was head over heels with this guy but then .. uh.. we got in a fight for a week, and every single time i did anything everything would remidn me of him, a song, a comercial, a certain food, everything. It drove me crazy. But I mean were not together anymore now, and I still love him, and things still remind me of him, but I realize i cant keep living in the past. Whats done is done, and in your case nothing ever happened, so try to move on, meet new people, accept the offers of others, have fun, try it.
Good luck sweety.
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Honestly I think you're wasting your time. If he has feelings that strong for his ex, most likely he's always going to. Atleast for a good while. I think you should start doing things with your friends more or whenever you get the chance. Stop thinking about him, even though it may be hard. Just keep yourself busy and I think as time goes by you'll notice more and more how it doesn't really bother you anymore. If you give it a little time and actually TRY to move on, I knoww you can. Why waste your time on someone you only see once a year if that, when you could find someone that you like even more that you can see everyday... Don't think so much and it won't be so hard, go out with your friends and enjoy life. If it's meant to be it'll work out, if not just say oh well and move on, everything happens for a reason!
=] Evy
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