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I think I made a mistake about a guy
Ok, I'm female 17. I found out that one of my best guy friends liked me, and I told him I didn't want to mess up our friendship, and so I didn't want to go out with him. Well since he told me, our frienship has already been messed up.But yesterday, I was thinking that maybe we should go out. So I told him I would, but then I started thinking about all the bad things that can go wrong, and that I really don't like him as much as he likes me. I know everything I did was a mistake, but right now I just need some advice, anything really. Right now my head is spinning.
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Hey
First off- congrats on being my 100th question answered!
I've been in this same exact situation- liking my best friend (well- i'm on the other end of this..but still)
What happened to me and one of my best girl friends was completely unwanted.. we didn't talk for a month...
she basically told me to give her space.. so I did.. and waited for her to talk to me when she was ready...
When she finally talked to me again- we became best friends again and now we act like it never happened...
This is probably what you and your guy friend should do- because it all worked out for the best.. and trying to rush back into friendship will only make the friendship weaker..
just tell your friend that you need some time to think.. but assure him that you don't hate him or anything (because my friend didn't.. and it killed me).. .. you just need to work things out on your own..
And.. when you are ready to talk to him again (talk to him about this situation).. just let him know and have a talk about what happened.. and things will work out soon!
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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Hey the way I see it,
if the relationship is already weird now,
just try going out with him, what are you going to lose?
You never know, you might end up liking him more :]
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