|
Viewing QuestionsLove Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.
17/f, 16/m. Very detailed. Long.
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 5:58 pm
Me and my ex were dating for about a year.
I broke up with him on the 19th.
This is because the past month his personality has taken a 180 degree turn on me. He ignored me 2 times, about 4 days each time. Both those times were completley unnannounced, like he just vansihed out of my life. After the first time he ignored me, he decided to break up with me on the 6th. The next week we started talking again, and he very subtly said that he wanted me back, so I thought he wanted another try, another chance. So he asked me back out, and I said yes thinking he was going to put more effort in to be the boyfriend he was not so long ago.
Well, last week, Monday through Thursday, He vanished on me again. Both of t...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 5:26 pm
how far do you think an average 14/f should go w/ her bf?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
he wont ask me out
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 5:08 pm
theres a guy named russell, and i like him ALOT and he likes me too. well we have bin freinds with benefits 4 a while and i want him to ask me out, but he says that he doesent have time 4 1 right now, and that he dosent know when he can go out with me, but he said that if he could have a girlfreind then i would be his first choice. and the whole ordeal with him not having time to be with me, well asw long as i get to see him at school, which i do everyday, then that would be enough with me. well I want to be with em really badly, but whenever i mention about me and him
dating then he starts saying that if i want someone to go out with, then i should be with someone else and not be freinds with bene...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
duzz he?
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 4:55 pm
Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)
I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. But the thing is, if i tr...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
My Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 4:14 pm
Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (9) ]
get him to notice me at the least..
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 4:12 pm
i'm 16/f.
i just got out of a really long relationship, and now i like this guy a lot, but i don't know if he notices anything. what little things can i do to get him to notice me or anything like that? i'm not good at talking and flirting so what can i do? thanks!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
i am not in to boys yet
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 4:12 pm
I had this boyfriend once and he asked me out. By the way i am 13 if that helps....anyways..i said yes so we went out for a week but i never really had fun with him. All my friends have boyfriends and talk to them on the phone and invite them places and i dont think anybody is cute in our school. I dont know if i am just not into boys yet or not because whenever i say i am not into boys yet they just look at me like i am a baby or not mature or something...please help?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
I envy my boyfriend like hell
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 12:33 pm
To get it straight, envy is my biggest weakness, and I can never stand being with anyone that is better than I am (in whatever way: intelligence, appearance, accomplishments, etc.) Whenever I come across someone whom I perceive is a better individual than me, I'll run away from him/her as far as possible, otherwise the envious fire at my heart would burn me to death. Paradoxically, I fell in love with a guy whom I perceive is smarter and more accomplished than I am. He loves me too (or even more than I do him). But part of me doesn't seem to be able to carry on this relationship anymore, because I can’t stand the fact that I'm inferior than my boyfriend in some areas. I usually date someone that is equal to me or slightly dumber than me s...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
parents are demanding
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 12:24 pm
omg i hate my parents not really they're making me do stuff i don't wanna do though like they're trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend and i don't want to do it i mean i think i might love him but i'm not sure. i mean i really care for this guy and they don't even care
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
sex or love?
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 10:52 am
I am a female and have been with my boyfriend/fiancee' for about 2 years. I recently moved away to college and had to leave him behind because I have to live in a dorm my first year. I visit home all the time and spend most of my time with him and not my family. I love him, and he loves me, I know this I really do, but lately all he has been talking with me about is that he wants to have sex with other people, that love and sex are not connected in his mind and that he is sexually attracted to another person, but not in love with them. This makes sense, and I understand him, but I told him that if he wants to have sex with another person, we are not together because I am not going to be waiting at home while he has sex with another. He does...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
sex
Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 6:50 am
I am a virgin and I have not done anything with my boyfriend, but my mom is accusing me of having sex? Why would she think that and what can I do? Is she possibly jealous because I have a boyfriend and she doesnt so she is saying things?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
HELP GIRLS!!best hairstyle to impress my girl
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 11:37 pm
okay what is the best hairstyle?I'm going out with a gal next month and I have tried dozens of hairstyles which i liked but which one is the best through a girl's perspective?
i know different hairstyles suits different guys but there are some that suits most guys like either skater shaggy type or spiky mohawk or liberty spikes or emo combover...so what do you suggest?
anyways,here is my appearance first. I have black hair(asian),i have dark eyebrows,oval black eyes which are not typical small chinese,it's average size and curly eyelashes.oval face.i can't describe my lips or nose,but it's nothing special,just average and I just did snakebites,and I have one gauge ear on my right. so what do you girls suggest?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
celebrity day
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 11:06 pm
I'm a cheerleader and I have to participate in these themes that we do at school each week for our footbal team. Well this week it is celebrity day...So me and my friend want to be two celebrities that are friends but we don't now who to be besides Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie but a lot of people were doing them...so does anybody know who we can do?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Guys and flirting
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 9:36 pm
Hello--
Last Monday there was this guy and he kept calling me hott and sexy and stuff. And telling my friend he'd do me and make out with me. And then Last Wed. he stopped doing that because he thought i was boring but truth be told I was having a horrible week and normally I'll flirt back but it was just a horrible week so I wasn't in that flirting mood. And I kinda want him back calling me hot and sexy and stuff. So what are something things I can/should do to flirt and get him back to calling me how and sexy and stuffff?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
does he still like me?!?!?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 9:18 pm
ok so i went out with this guy for awhile then we broke up and like stopped talking even though we said we were still gunna b friends and talk afterwards but it didnt happen so the i didnt see him for like 6 months and then my sister started going out with his couzin so we started hanging out and stuff so them we went out for like w week because he broke p with his girlfriend for me then he broke up with me because i wouldnt put out so then we still like saw eachother alot because i became really good friends with his sister and wahtever then his family became like my second family...so then i ended up losing it to him while he was going out to this girl then he broke up with her then he was all over me when it was just the two of us and th...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
boyfriend, ex boyfriend
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 9:09 pm
okay well i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago now. we were dating for 1 1/2 years. and now i'm dating this kid who i really like and he really likes me. but i sorta still have feelings for my ex.he was a real jerk someitmes and everything but then other times he seemed like the perfect boyfriend.and i think he still sorta has feelings for me and so does everyone else. like he always follows one of my best friends boyfriend's around becuase i'm always with her . and they think its becuase he wants to be near me again. and he is always looking at me and walking next to me in the hallway but not talking. and my best friend thinks that hes waiting for me to call him because he always has his phone on and when we were dating it was al...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
like the same guy
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 9:07 pm
my friend and i both like the same guy. we arent really close or anything. I dont want to "fight over him" but how do I show him i like him without being tooooooooo flirty, before she does? should i talk to his best friend who is also my close friend? i think taht might be messy tho..
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
so i like this guy, but i don't know how to tell him
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 9:02 pm
There's this guy that I talk to in a few of my classes and I like him, quite a bit actually. But we are sorta friends and I want to go out with him but I don't know how I should tell him. Because I don't wanna ruin the friendship we already have. What should I do?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
my boyfriend..
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 8:52 pm
me and my boyfriend ((we are both in 7th grade)) have been going out for 1 1/2 months. i have kissed him a few times but he always plans it. i feel like he cant like just kiss me when we are together, is there anyways you can help me find a way to get him to get comfortable enough to do that? i really really love him and so does he and i have kissed him a few times but a lot of his friends are saying he wants to or he is going to make out with me next time we hang out. i have never done that before so...how do you make out? any pointers or tips? i have asked a question about how to kiss once and someone sent me this amazing website but i lost it! if yall know a a website, that would be great
thanks in advance!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
nervous!
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 8:49 pm
warning: this may be long!
well i am in 7th grade and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 1 1/2 months. he cant really go anywhere because his parents are kind of strict. we went to the park once because his parents didnt know and thats is where i got my 1st kiss and my mom found out and she wont let me go. and we hung out at a haunted house on saturday. but that is pretty much it, he said he made a deal with his parents that after either halloween or thanks giving he can start going places with me. but i dont know if that will even happen. i really like him and all but should i let something like that get in the way? i am the 1st person he has actually loved you know so he wants to kiss me a lot even though we have onl...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
|