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nervous!
warning: this may be long!
well i am in 7th grade and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 1 1/2 months. he cant really go anywhere because his parents are kind of strict. we went to the park once because his parents didnt know and thats is where i got my 1st kiss and my mom found out and she wont let me go. and we hung out at a haunted house on saturday. but that is pretty much it, he said he made a deal with his parents that after either halloween or thanks giving he can start going places with me. but i dont know if that will even happen. i really like him and all but should i let something like that get in the way? i am the 1st person he has actually loved you know so he wants to kiss me a lot even though we have only kissed 4 times. he wanted to kiss me today at my locker but i was shaking in 7th period because i was so nervouss! is there any way that you could help me not be so nervous and help both of us because he has chickened out a few timess. we are both really comfortable around eachother except when it comes to kissing. and he doesnt know how to just do it, he always has to ask me if he can kiss me like a day before..is there anyway i can just kiss him because it really pisses me off when he plans it!!
thanks in advance! sorry it is so long!
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Okay girl
first take a deep breath
feel better?
It's okay to be unsure if he is your first love. When it comes to kissing well you'll learn to love it. A way to get him to stop "planing" your kisses is you jump in and be spontanious! Kiss him first without notice. He'll like it trust me. I'm in 12th grade and I know with each new boyfriend they kiss a little different. You'll eventually find that you will learn how you and him like it.
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Awwww!! young love!!
ok, it sucks that his parents are being like this, and that your mum's reaction wasnt nice :( however,it sounds like you really like this boy, and so DO NOT let this get in the way of things. remember...take it slow...and you'll both be fine :)
dont go behind your parents' backs though, as this will make them angry and they wont trust you. so if you want to win them over by making them accept this, then just play it their way for a while. instead of going out, ask if he can come over for tea (i know that sounds lame...but its a way of your mum getting to know him.)
as for the kissing, when he's talking and you have a rush of passion, just kiss him on the cheek or lips - because if you do that - he wouldnt't have been expecting it. its roamntic and spontaneous!!
that way, you wont be nervous as YOU are in control, and you wont have to "impress" him as he will be swept away with what you did :)
i wish you the best of luck, tell me how it goes
take care
dia(alex)
xxx
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