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17/f, 16/m. Very detailed. Long.
Me and my ex were dating for about a year.
I broke up with him on the 19th.
This is because the past month his personality has taken a 180 degree turn on me. He ignored me 2 times, about 4 days each time. Both those times were completley unnannounced, like he just vansihed out of my life. After the first time he ignored me, he decided to break up with me on the 6th. The next week we started talking again, and he very subtly said that he wanted me back, so I thought he wanted another try, another chance. So he asked me back out, and I said yes thinking he was going to put more effort in to be the boyfriend he was not so long ago.
Well, last week, Monday through Thursday, He vanished on me again. Both of these random vanishing eras, he said he needed time to straighten his head out on account of him being very stressed. Weird.
So last Thursday I brok up with him, because I'm so done with his crap and feeling so hurt. And in the past month, he's broken nearly all his promises he made to me during our relationship.
I was tired of feeling so hurt, so I ended it, as I said.
He didnt talk to me Thursday and Friday, but we talked early Saturday morning, and he came over later on in the day. It was awkward. We both knew we had to talk, but nothing was said.
Yesterday online, he spilled his guts and said he wasn't letting something so special to him go, just because he's been an asshole to me... that he still loves me.. blah blah blah.. and some other things I would of wanted to hear last week when he was ignoring me. He sounded very genuine, though. You can never tell in IMs, but he did sound very genuine.
I dont know. I've asked my friends for advice, and I've gotten different answers from each person.
I've thought about everything he said to me on Saturday, as well as his recent actions that have left me feeling so hurt. And I honestly don't know what to do.
He's out of state for a while, so I don't have to make any descisions. But, I really don't know what to do.
We've had soo many good times. It's worse since he's my first love. We had so many plans.
Help?
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ok well from your question, I can tell he's not worth it. Guys don't ignore you, dump you, then ask for another chance. There's other fish in the sea. And hopefully, he can straighten out his problems. Hope I helped!
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Okay here's voice of experiance.
HE'S NOT WORTH IT !!!!
He has treated you so badly and broken your heart. He oviously has some iner demons he needs to battle. I know it might be hard because he was your first love, but you have to suck it up and do it. If that conversation was awcward than it oviously isn't worth it. Move on and find someone who will treat you like a prinecess. You deserve much better, so go out there and get it. Trust me I know what I'm talking about.
Good Luck
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