okay well i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago now. we were dating for 1 1/2 years. and now i'm dating this kid who i really like and he really likes me. but i sorta still have feelings for my ex.he was a real jerk someitmes and everything but then other times he seemed like the perfect boyfriend.and i think he still sorta has feelings for me and so does everyone else. like he always follows one of my best friends boyfriend's around becuase i'm always with her . and they think its becuase he wants to be near me again. and he is always looking at me and walking next to me in the hallway but not talking. and my best friend thinks that hes waiting for me to call him because he always has his phone on and when we were dating it was always off.but i dont know. and at lunch today he backed me up when this kid wouldn't pick something up that he threw.but the weird thing is, is we haven't talked since i broke up with him and i still want to be friends with him but i dont know.i'm so confused.and my new boyfreind is more of a perfect boyfriend but i dont know if i love him like i did for my ex. how am i suppose to tell ?and what should i do about my feelings for my ex?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? listening79mouth answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 5:44 am: you love your ex and you feel that your present bf is a perfect one.. get permission or a consent or leave a word to your present bf that you will just talk with your ex privately for the breaking to be cleared. then in your coversation with your ex, tell your real feelings to him and ask him too if why is he always in your back-up. also ask him if he still have feelings for you. then be honest to your present bf. if the result of the talk with your ex is that you both still love each other, go tell your present bf that you're confused with your situation. explain to him that you have the feeling that he's the perfect one for you but you still have this feeling for your ex. seek help to him too. [ listening79mouth's advice column | Ask listening79mouth A Question ]
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