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friendship or more....


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 2:19 pm

Hi guys,
I'm sure you'll have a blast giving me advice.
So here is my problem.
I've been crazy about this guy for around three years now. At first, it was just a small thing but now it's huge. I know, as sad as it sounds, he's the first guy I've loved. He was in love with my 'former best friend' (I didn't fall out with her because of that reason, she left us.) Anyway, once that was over, we became... sort of mates. We argued constantly but for some reason, i still liked him... He found out and kind of stopped talking to me, but after a while once he thought i must be over him, he spoke to me again.

Basically, I'll get to now.
Three years later i'm still mad about him, but we're actually good frien...

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UGHH RELATIONSHIPS ...


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 2:07 pm

ok so i use to go out with this boy named jacob he was soo sweet . nice . lovin . caring basicly wat a girl wants inna guyy but the only problem was . was that he was boring we never did anything other than go to each others houses . but thats beside the point . we broke up i think the beginin of December because i just felt like it wasnt goin any wher . now i miss him more than ever i didnt think i would want him bac but the tables turned on me & i really miss him ALOT & i wanna get bac together with him . i mean we didnt even speck after we broke up & yesterday was the 1st day sence . but i found out he has a girl friend . idk wat to do i mean if hes happy i dont wanna mess anything up because im not THAT big of a bitch ya...

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i didnt know what to put this under but i need serious help!


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 1:53 pm

i dont know whats wrong with me i been just acting weird! im afraid of death and thats all i seem to think about! when i get into a car i pray that we make it back alive and safe when im gone away from my mother i pray that she's ok and that nothing happens while im gone! i love my mother to death she is my everything my world and i would seriously go crazy if something was to happen to her! i do believe in GOD he is also a big part of my life even though i dont go to church anymore i trust him with my life! but my problem is that i was told by a verity of people that i was bipolar and at first i just laughed it off but now im starting to think that i really am and its gettin the best of me! i have a boyfriend that is so annoying but i love...

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Should i leave?


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 12:20 pm

Okay so im a girl 16 years old. sophmore im dating a senior. were in love we are absolutely crazy about each other. Although we have couple problems. we both have strong personalaties and very stuborned and have alot of pride. well for our reletionship i let my pride and stuborness go but he didnt. I have a past where i used to be with many guys just dating(no sex)and he is still really jelous about that but now i dont even talk to other guys or anything and hes still really possesive and jealous he think i try to look good for other guys and try to get attention and he thinks hes not good enough but he is. its just i like to look good and he hates it. We fight alot! basicly we have an argument every day. He does not trust me although he s...

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desprate for advice


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 12:14 pm

ok theres this boy that i like and that i have liked for a long time and we would flirt and all like we would make bets and stuff hes a flirtnot only to me but others and he told me that he likes me as a friend but his friends and everybody around me tells me different and the thing is that he knows i like him and well sometimes he acts like he likes me more than just a friend and heres whats complicated i feel like im getting closer yet further and he knows my brothers and hes friends not good friends but friends he said that hes not scared of my brothers and he proved so on some occasions like at a party so he does act like he likes me but he never really says it or acts on it and i wonder why why act like more than a friend but not act o...

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We like each other...I think...but jhe is


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:11 am

THis guy and I really like each other....well at least I know that i really like him. But he told me he liked me, and we have been talkin to each other for a month and some days. He is really sweet and we talk nearly everyday. but there is one problem: I live like two counties away from him (about 45-50 minutes) and the only common ground we have is when we see each other at church every Saturday. This weekend, he told me that he doesnt know if it will really work out because of our distance. I was crushed. But we saw each other the next day, and he said that he missed me, and he think he made a mistake. Then he added that the distance was not the only thing, that he wasnt being completely honest. Im not sure what it is, and im not sure whe...

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The most confusing boy ever.


Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:04 am

So theres this guy I work with, who I've been talking to for about 4 months now. Just last month we even exchanged phone numbers and we've been talking on the phone and texting almost everynight. The only problem is I can't tell if he really likes me. So my question is, what are some ways you can tell if a guy is into you?

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Choice.


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 11:20 pm

Ok i have this sudden urge to talk to my ex boyfriend.Not really the plan of getting back with him but i dont know, i still love him but i want to know how his life is and im begginning to miss those long talks we use to have everynight.But i dont know if i should call,he has no reason to be mean to me but im afraid yet he will be.Should i call him?

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Guys


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:53 pm

13/f
k theres this guy at my school and i dont know him but hes really hot and i see him looking at me all the time. How can i strike a converstaion with him, without looking desperate and also how can i drop some hints?
Any advice is appreaciated
Thanks!

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HELP ASAP


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:46 pm

ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE.

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I like


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:26 pm

A mean , rude, jerk.
He's mean to me, he calls me fat etc.
He hates me
But we used to be really really good friends
I still like him
No matter how mean he is
wtf
help?
14/f

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phone....


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:15 pm

umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help!

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Kinda long


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 9:11 pm

Im going to sum this up as much as i can.
Theres this boy, and i like him ALOT
Me and him never got into a fight or anything but we did stuff [if ya know what i mean] and people found out and rumors and junk went around
so he hated me
the other day he talked to me and said he didnt hate me
my friend asked him if he hated me and he said he did and he said hes always hated me
and hes acting like hes never had anything to do with me, when he has and he full well knows it
I like him alot and i dont know what to do
help plz?

15/f

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to shy for the guy?


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 8:32 pm

I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!?

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Two people meet at a bar...


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 8:24 pm

I am 17 and I met this guy at a bar. He is 21 and I just wonder if other people think that is too old for me. Should I go out with him again? We exchanged phone numbers and we have talked on the phone. Any and all responses are appreciated.

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Bisexual


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 7:34 pm

Im a 15 year old female and I think Im bisexual. I like guys but I think I like girls. Like, I think about making out with them and stuff like that. I know a couple bi people but anyway. Should I experience stuff with a girl and see if I like it before I make up my mind about being bisexual? Im attractive to them, I think.

-Confused.

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Shy Boy


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 6:58 pm

So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks.

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Well, there's this guy.


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 6:11 pm

There's this guy that I REALLY like. He's sweet, sensitive, funny, kind of shy, and really cute. But he's not like every other guy. He has different opinions on things and he isn't afraid to express his views. I'm so attracted to him...and one day I told him how I felt.

He said he didn't like me yet, and that for now him and I should be friends.

But, in a way, he returned his feelings. How will I know when he feels exactly the same way as I do?

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i love him but he doesn't lovve me


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 6:09 pm

14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him

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long distance


Posted Monday January 8 2007, 5:08 pm

i was in a relationship with this guy before he lives in a different state and we dated on and off for almost 2 years and over the summers and breaks my family and i used to go where he lives and visit him and his family cuz we were close and then my parents got divorced so we stopped going and now 4 years later here i am and i still have feelings for him and him the same for me but im not sure if im ready to be with him again. i mean i really want to but its just awkward because it was 4 years of not seeing eachother because now we are seeing eachother again. so im not sure if a long distance thing would work? i need some advice.

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