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long distance
i was in a relationship with this guy before he lives in a different state and we dated on and off for almost 2 years and over the summers and breaks my family and i used to go where he lives and visit him and his family cuz we were close and then my parents got divorced so we stopped going and now 4 years later here i am and i still have feelings for him and him the same for me but im not sure if im ready to be with him again. i mean i really want to but its just awkward because it was 4 years of not seeing eachother because now we are seeing eachother again. so im not sure if a long distance thing would work? i need some advice.
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Well,the chances of you being able to see him and spend time with him are slim to none. I personally don't suggest long distance relationships because you never really get to see or talk to the person and you begin to feel tied down, like you have an obligation of some sort. And, yes there's a chance that calling him or talking to him after four years out of nowhere would be a little awkward. I wouldn't doubt it. My advice to you is not to get involved with a long distance relationship but to keep in touch with him. Who knows what could happen in the future? Maybe you guys will be reuinted again but who knows? For now just do your best to not entertain the thought of a relationship and think about moving on. I'm sure there are plenty of guys in your area worth dating :] Hope I helped! xxo Hannah
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Yeah being away from a guy for 4 years must be hard. It probably won't work if they are in a different state too and he could have changed over the 4 years and maybe you miss the memories and thats why you want to go back. I just say try to find another guy it will be real hard but talk to other guys and get to know them and then you might catch yourself falling for one of them!
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