Ok i have this sudden urge to talk to my ex boyfriend.Not really the plan of getting back with him but i dont know, i still love him but i want to know how his life is and im begginning to miss those long talks we use to have everynight.But i dont know if i should call,he has no reason to be mean to me but im afraid yet he will be.Should i call him?
sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 10:55 am: I don't think that you should call him. Here's why: you're not over him yet. You don't want to get back together with him at the moment, but if you begin communicating with him again that could change very quickly. If you still love him and you miss the long talks, etc., it is inevitable that you will want to get back with him. You'll everything again if you get a small taste of it too soon. Wait until you are completely over him before beginning to talk to him again. It will save you a lot of heartache. Don't complicate your life. It's not worth it. Try looking around you and finding someone that can make you feel the same way as your ex did. He's there. All you have to do is find him. Good luck. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Debateist answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 5:51 am: oK YOU MAY STILL LOVE HIM BUT DOES HE STILL LOVE YOU WHO PULLED THE PLUG ON THE RELATIONSHIP YOU OR HIM? i THINK THAT MAYBE THE REASON YOU ARE WANTING TO TALK TO HIM IS BECAUSE YOU ARE LONELY. iF YOU DO DECIDE TO CALL THEN DONT TALK ABOUT THE TWO OF YOU BEING TOGETHER AND THE GOOD TIMES AND i WOULD DEFINETLY PROCEED WITH CAUTION AS HE MAY ALREADY BE IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP SO MAYBE JUST START OFF WITH A TXT.
HOPE I HELPED GOOD LUK I HOPE YOU FIND LOVE EITHER WAY
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LagunaBabe answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 1:04 am: Actually, I'm experiencing the exact same thing right now. Except, I do want my ex back but that's beside the point. My advice to you is to definitely call him, no matter your intentions. Because you're going to wonder "what if?" if you don't. And if you don't think he'll be mean about, I would go ahead and give him a call. I'm sure everything will work out, good luck! [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
kiran answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 12:32 am: You should call him if you want too and if you don't think he will be mean about it then just take the chance. If he is mean to you then you can just forget about him. But just talk to him as a friend and you might get the opprotunity to have a great friend. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
illdomybest answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 12:27 am: if he has no reason to be mean to you then he probably wont. just take the confident step in talking to him and explain you want to be friends. if he doesn't like the idea then it wasnt meant to be but. but dont miss out on a potential chance of a really great friend. you might regret it if you dont try. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
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