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boyfriend
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 6:12 pm
i'm 15/f in 9th grade in a Middle school and i get depressed a lot that i've never had a boyfriend. and i've also never kissed a guy before. sometimes i just get to thinking like wow there are like 13 yr olds with boyfriends and who have gotten their first kiss before.
also most of the people in my grade have boyfriends and have definitely kissed a guy before. it just gets me sad knowing that i haven't kissed a guy or even had a boyfriend before.
i don't want advice on how to get a boyfriend, that isn't my problem. i just want advice on how to be more confident and not to be constantly worrying about the fact that i've never had a boyfriends and i'm still prude.
thanks =]
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I THINK IM FALLING IN LOVE WITH MY MANS BESTFRIEND, WHO ALSO
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 6:08 pm
mkay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for five months. i absolutely love him, and i know he feels the same about me. on january second i was diagnosed with epilepsy, i had been having seizures for about half a year before the diagnosis but i was kind of hiding them from the world. Anyways, my boyfriend was kind of awkward at first with the diagnosis, but hes very protective of me, and hes very kind about everything. For about a month now though, we've been having some relationship problems, He is SO insecure about our relationship and constantly nags on me about me hanging out with my guy friends, and telling me that i dont love him as much as he loves me. its very annoying. and so recently i feel that hes been lashing back at me,...
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dating
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 5:32 pm
Last night was a school dance. I didn't have a date (not for lack of trying), so I went stag for the day-date with my friends and the dinner. After dinner, we had an hour until the dance was supposed to start, so we went to walmart, where another of my friends works. He couldn't go because he had to work, but it turned out he got off work at 9, so I talked him into coming tot he dance when he got off work to be my date. After he got to the dance we danced every song except one and we held hands when we were in line for pictures or waiting for the rest of our group. When we went for ice cream after he opened my doors and put his arm around me when we were walking. I had a good time, and he said he did too, but I was wondering if I shou...
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shes just a friend, could she be more???
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 3:25 pm
Ive got a friend who ive liked since ive known her, we made out a couple times and have admitted to liking eachother but then chose not to date, shes got a bf now, what kind of things could i do to make her know i really really like her still, do i wana be subtle or just come out and say that i want her? ladies, this is where i could use your help lol
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aol love
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:58 pm
okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on.
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my boyfriends mom hates me!
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:33 pm
my boyfriends mom hates me, and for no reason. im in 7th grade, she's hated me since 5th. even my boyfriend doesn know why. and she loves my best friend. and the other night at his modified basketball game his mom asked my firned why he was dating me and then flat out said i dont like her! ergg. so we never get to hang out. and i really love when we get to hang out. we have so much fun and stuff. but we onyl get to hangout at games like the JV games and Varisty and such, but sometimes we go like a whole MONTH [ not really that long it seems like it though ] without seeing eachother. what should we do.. cuz i really love him and if i ever went to his house [ which would nvr happen his moms physco ] id feel really uncomfortable. someone please help!!!
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Break Up
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:28 pm
Before me and my Bf started going out, we werent really friends. he was in my group of friends but we never really talked. once we started going out, all we talked about was love-stuff and all i ever found about about him was that he liked me. i asked him if maybe we could talk about normal stuff and we had nothing to say for eachother. and we both kind of stoped liking eachother and we broke up but its what both of us wanted. and now he texted me and were talking about normal stuff and its really nice. ecept usually im a big-time flirt but i dont want to flirt with this guy because i dont want to go out with him again it just wouldent work. and im also afraid to talk to him because im worried i might start to like him again since the main ...
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Hurting me
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 1:11 pm
This guy and I have liked each other for so long and this summer was awesome we were like gf and bf and then things died out. Like every month i would phone him to see how he was and we would talk for ages and yet he wouldnt talk to me in school. So A few weeks ago i invited him over and honestley its like awesome we were all cuddly and like a couple and then he left. Then at school, ignores me and then sometimes he talks to me and he's like 'u ok?' and i've been like 'umm yeh' but he promised to take me to the cinema and he didnt and then he promised to come over on Friday and he didnt. Should I confront him, thing is if i do- i will have to be drastic and say ' Look if you care for me, if you really care, you will put effort in as a frien...
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kiss on the first date?
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 12:42 pm
Should I kiss on the first date?
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Is it cheating?
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 12:12 pm
Is one kiss considered "cheating"?
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Kissy Tales
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:37 am
MY question is just basically what age do most teenagers have their first kiss? And what age do they get their first boyfriend? I'm fom a respectable family and I don't want to spoil my fam's name..but I really want to have a boyfriend BTW i'm 15/f.
My mum had her first bf like 18 or 19! And this is kinda weird...but I don't think I can't wait that long cause I mean most people i know have haad a bf and a first kiss! Please answer!!
Distressed!
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dance with his ex = disaster.
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:24 am
I have a boyfriend who I love very much & we are long distance now. One of his ex's invited him to a dance which was last night. I let him to because I want him to have a life too & I was fine with them going as just friends. Well, after the dance, he calls me & complains about what a bad date she was & how when we went it was a lot better & told the girl to never speak to him again. Then he tells me they kissed on the cheek... I was ok with that, it's not like there was any passion in a cheek kiss. Well a few minutes later he calls & tells me that she kissed him... on the lips & that it "just happened". I don't know what to do... he came forward & told me (I wouldn't have found out any other way) &...
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Is he controling me??
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 11:11 am
Ok...im 14/f...
Me && my boyfriend have been going out for 4 monthes... I've been told that it sounds like he is controling me or whatever...
I really like/love him...but could it be he is...
When ever we get in a fight and I tell one of my friends (because i need someone to help me before i end up hurtin myself or something) well he gets mad and yells at me... Or my friend will say something to him and then he tells me to tell them to stop talking to him...
it makes me feel (excuse my language) shitty!!!
he makes me feel like it is always my fault we get in fights! And he bugs me by sayin boys names he thinks i like... i could do the same to him but i dont because we would end up fighting more......
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Ex boyfriend
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 10:57 am
13/f.
So I had been dating this guy for about 3 weeks, and I mean I REALLY liked him. I don't know if its because he was my first boyfriend in a year, since my last one moved, or what. But he was great, he would call me on the phone, and would talk to me forever. And he'd text me. When his phone broke he used his friends, everything. But I've never kissed a guy. (I'm a little embarassed by that, but I've always pictured my first kiss as something really romantic.) Anyway, when his friends were over at his house he'd call me, and say really perverted things, that totally disgusted me. (i.e. "When are we gonna bang") And I felt uncomfortable talking about things like that, so I would say something like "awkwardddd"...
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Clubbing
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 9:46 am
14/f In my town, there is a "nightclub" for teenagers to go to where people basically only grind and hook up all night. I've been there a few times, but I just do not understand how I can hook up with someone. Normally, I will just grind and then after the song is over walk away/grind with someone else. I really want to hook up with somebody, so how could I do it? Do you just turn around while grinding? Also, what if they don't want to hook up, then that is so embarassing! I would like any aadvice on how to hook up (with random strangers) while at a louuuud party/while grinding? Like is there a way you can let them know you want to hook up?
ANY ADVICE IS SOOO APPRECIATED!!
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pressure to have a boyfriend?
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 9:36 am
15/f, freshman. i'm shy, like pretty shy and in school, i'm quiet. in my classes i'm not the one who's raising their hand for every question and i'm not like extremely talkative in class. with new people, i find it hard to talk to them and open up. i've never had a real boyfriend, never kissed or anything. it hasn't started bothering me until recently. i know that i have to change. not only do i want a boyfriend but i want friends, guy friends or girl friends. i have some friends but i can't always depend on them and get bored easily. so now, it seems like there's not only pressure from myself to have a boyfriend/friends, but from my family. lately whenever my family gets together, we get into the topic of people we like. my 18 year old cou...
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he is an a**hole
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 2:22 am
so theres this guy(he will be called a) ..i really liked him and to me it seemed like he felt the same.over the summer i sent him pics (they werent good ones) and he told me he wouldnt show anyone well when school started one of my friends said they saw the pics on A's phone.then i found out that most of the guys at my school saw the pics. So me and A got in a fight but i went back to him we never went out he knew i liked him so we started hangout and one night i snuckout to meet him and we went in the woods and i gave him head then he hurt me agian...BUT i still went back to him then he txted on xmas break and he wanted a xmas gift so i did it agian..after i did it i txted him and asked if he liked me all he said was ''it was fun'' then s...
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ehh valentines day
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 1:38 am
okay so I'm a girl, 14 years old. freshman. I just came out as a bisexual recently, as getting a girlfriend. we have been together since 12-30-06 and i don't know what to get her for valentines day. I can't do anything to expencive, or big. just small and cute. something that she will love. I was thinking writing a card that says "I am in love with you" or like "I love you" in a bunch of different languages and like really big in english in the middle. I can't get her a teddy bear cause I already did when we first started dating. so....help?
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This boy
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 12:39 am
i really really like this guy, we broke up a few months ago and we've been hanging out occasionally recently because his best friend is dating my best friend. my friends say that when we hang out there is alot of a sexual tension between us. the first time we hung out after our break up was 2 weeks ago and we made out a lottttt. He's kind of a man whore and has realized it recently and says it's a bad thing. He's been acting differently lately and not flirting as much, what does this mean? should i start talking to him more? we're still friends and we still kinda flirt but idk what to do. HELP.
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so confused...
Posted Sunday February 4 2007, 12:22 am
ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blow...
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