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Ex boyfriend
13/f.
So I had been dating this guy for about 3 weeks, and I mean I REALLY liked him. I don't know if its because he was my first boyfriend in a year, since my last one moved, or what. But he was great, he would call me on the phone, and would talk to me forever. And he'd text me. When his phone broke he used his friends, everything. But I've never kissed a guy. (I'm a little embarassed by that, but I've always pictured my first kiss as something really romantic.) Anyway, when his friends were over at his house he'd call me, and say really perverted things, that totally disgusted me. (i.e. "When are we gonna bang") And I felt uncomfortable talking about things like that, so I would say something like "awkwardddd" or "kind of uncomfortable right now" and such. Well we got each other Christmas gifts, and he loved his, and I adored mine. (We exchanged at school, about a week or two from Christmas) Well 3 days before Christmas, he hadn't called all Christmas break and hadn't been replying to my texts. So I was just telling myself "He's at his families and forgot his phone" or something to ease my mind. Well 3 days before Christmas, he got lindsey to call me and say he just wanted to be friends. I heard the voicemail. And I didn't believe it, so I texted him. He said it was true. No reason why, I mean I would have settled for "I'm not attracted to you anymore." So, I tried to get over him. Its now February and I think I still like him, but I don't WANT to like him. I'm currently talking to this other guy, who's amazing, and I'd really rather be with this guy, than Joseph. But I need to stop this attraction. I'm fine as long as I don't see him. But when I do, its like I'm in love. Is this because of my harmones or something?!
Thanks
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it has something to do with your hormones but probably not what you think......it will take time to et over him. it is hardwer when they break up with you because you still like them in the realtionship(most of th time anyway) but just let time do it's thang and it will be okay sooner or later...as for that other guy GO FOR HIM....i mean really what's holdin you back?
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well get with him and tell him or your friends if the can make a plan.and use 1 of them and practice on them make sure you tell them so they understand why you are doing it.
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It could be your hormones, but time heals everything. Don't get into a relationship with this new guy until you're absolutely positive that you're over Joseph. And when you see him, be positive you don't like him.
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It seems like you really liked this guy, but he was a jerk. Any guy is a jerk if they don't have a GOOD reason for dumping you. If you're talking to another guy and you'd really rather be with him, then get to know him better. Get him to ask you out. Once you start kissing the new guy, you'll get more attracted to him. That's weird...my boyfriend's name is Joseph :) haha
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