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so confused...
ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blowing in my ear and whispering things to me. now i feel really bad because it feels like i'm stabbing B in the back. now i can't get A off of my mind. i'm just really confused...what should i do?
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People keep saying its been a whole two weeks... well I disagree, two weeks isn't a long time at all and your friend probably might still like him. You should definitely tell your friend, before she finds out from someone else, because then you will really seem like a BEEP. If you like him, you should tell her that too, but if your not sure then you dont need to tell her that. Also, obviously include the part about him being all over you, but also that you didnt stop him. Hope that helped. Sincerely, Pk.
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you shouldent feel bad. HE came up to YOU! and also, theyve been broken up for 2 WHOLE WEEKS already! i woulddent worry about it. you dont need to tell her. unless you think shell find out some other way then you should tell her. explain to her that you really like him. dont go itno details about all the things he did because it could make her sad
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i had almost the same thing happen to me except my bestfriend wasnt going out with the guy...but she really liked him....you gotta tell ur friend...yea she will get hurt or upset but she wont be mad at u forever...when this happened with me i just told one of my friends..then my bestfriend found out bout a week later..yea we fought well i said sorry alot and she got over it that day..but you gotta tell her she is gonna findout sooner or later and its better if she finds out by you
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it has been two week since they broke up.
he obviously has feelings for you. i think you should talk to your friend about it and make sure taht she is okay with you talking to this guy. i think that you may have wanted him to be doing these things or you would have pushed him off. talk to B and tell her what you feel, if she says it okay then go for it. Friendship is more important than romance.
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