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I THINK IM FALLING IN LOVE WITH MY MANS BESTFRIEND, WHO ALSO
mkay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for five months. i absolutely love him, and i know he feels the same about me. on january second i was diagnosed with epilepsy, i had been having seizures for about half a year before the diagnosis but i was kind of hiding them from the world. Anyways, my boyfriend was kind of awkward at first with the diagnosis, but hes very protective of me, and hes very kind about everything. For about a month now though, we've been having some relationship problems, He is SO insecure about our relationship and constantly nags on me about me hanging out with my guy friends, and telling me that i dont love him as much as he loves me. its very annoying. and so recently i feel that hes been lashing back at me, flirting with other girls. (for example, at one of his youth events there was a huge tub of melted chocolate and his friend whos a girl, and who he clams is just like a little sister to him, allowed him to pour this all over her, and then let him lick it off. i mean seriosly. WHAT THE HELL? So when he told me, i was just like um okay? and then the next day i was talking to one of my really good guy friends who happens to be his best friend. this guys just kept telling me what a piece of shit i was dating, and how i deserved SO much better. He then proceeded to absolutely tell of my boyfriend, and yelled at him for atleast 10 minutes. about how he made me feel like crap, and about how he didnt deserve me. my boyfriend and i got into a HUGE fight. but like five minutes we later made up because, he called me sobbing, and apologizing and crap. So now, whenever something happens that im uncomfortable, instead of telling my boyfriend, i tell his best friend, (AND WHOS ALSO MY BEST FRIEND), this guys honestly cares about me, and he told me that he would always be on my side No matter what my choices where in life. Hes pretty much the boy, that is the "one". and hes there all along, but you see him only as the best friend whos there for you everytime you get screwed over. i think im in love with him, but i dont want to be, but i know that hes the one guy that i NEED to be with to make my life better, BUt i also am in love with my boyfriend.
HELP!?!?!?
pleasee and thankyous.
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