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shes just a friend, could she be more???
Ive got a friend who ive liked since ive known her, we made out a couple times and have admitted to liking eachother but then chose not to date, shes got a bf now, what kind of things could i do to make her know i really really like her still, do i wana be subtle or just come out and say that i want her? ladies, this is where i could use your help lol
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Don't pursue her until she's single.
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I'm sorry but I have to ask this, are you an idiot?! She has a boyfriend. Why in the hell would you want to screw that up for her? Just be a good friend and if and when she breaks up with this guy (and you can be sure the relationship with the new guy won't last) be there for her and thats when you have your chance. Let time take its course.
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this is complicated, i've been in a similar situation with my best guy friend. this is what i told him :
i used to like you before you were going out with your girlfriend, i didn't tell you before because i didn't want to ruin anything because i know you're really happy, i just you to know that although i've forced myself to get over you i still have potential feelings but i don't want this to change our anything because i would never want to risk something that really makes you happy, i just wanted you to know.
something like that, my friend was really understanding and didn't mind that i told him because we trust each other and he knows i wouldn't want to ruin anything for him. hope your friend is as understanding as mine and i hope that gave you some idea of what to say...good luck, women are tricky, but they're also caring so just go for it
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Listen she already knows you like her..if she was interested in dating im sure shed let you know..She has a boyfriends so obviously shes not shy about having one so thats not why she turned you down.No you shouldnt bring it up at all shes made her decision and its just going to bring out hostility when she has a bf. If she wanted you she would come and get you.So your going to have to move on and accept that your just friends even though youve kissed and said things it really doesnt aount to much if your not going out. Now unless you were the one who didnt want to date and she did then i'd say bring it up to her but if she vocalized that she didnt want to date then your going to have to settle with friendship and accept what ever happened as a fluke and move on.If you cant respect her wishes and drop it then your not being a good friend.If they break up on there own and you want to bring it up one last time or she expresses to you that she interested then thats a diffrent story.If shes leading you on or flirting with you or giving you some type of sign that makes you keep hoping then shes just trying to keep a foot on you incase things dont work out people do that sometimes so if thats the case dont fall victim to it.It could be that if shes not giving a signal of wanting something more that your just meant to be friends so let it go especially if your really friends. If you continue to push it then your hurting your self,her,and you guys friendship.
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I suggest you find someone else. This girl is already happy with someone else. Why would you want to rip their relationship apart? It would take a ton of effort and it's selfish. There is a huge chance it wouldn't work. Even if it did, would you really want to be with the kind of girl who would ditch her boyfriend? Becides, there are plenty of other attractive girls who have their eyes on you, I'm sure. Good luck on finding someone new, and let me know hwo things work out :)
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