I have a boyfriend who I love very much & we are long distance now. One of his ex's invited him to a dance which was last night. I let him to because I want him to have a life too & I was fine with them going as just friends. Well, after the dance, he calls me & complains about what a bad date she was & how when we went it was a lot better & told the girl to never speak to him again. Then he tells me they kissed on the cheek... I was ok with that, it's not like there was any passion in a cheek kiss. Well a few minutes later he calls & tells me that she kissed him... on the lips & that it "just happened". I don't know what to do... he came forward & told me (I wouldn't have found out any other way) & he swore it wouldn't happen again. He stayed up all night & apologized sincerely.(the tears & all.) I want to forgive & forget but how do I make sure that he knows he won't get away with this again? thanks for reading, thanks for answering.
Additional info, added Sunday February 4 2007, 12:11 pm: just talked to the girl... apperently he kissed her.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Volleyball2150 answered Sunday February 4 2007, 12:24 pm: kenidean said it all!!
if he apologized all night long, then I would forgive him. And just like kenidean said... if it happened again I would just dump him. when you added additional info: that you just talked to the girl, and apparently he kissed her.
well you know how they are... she's just lying!
I bet you that she's lying, trying to get you mad at him and then you dump him. You're just giving her what she wants, you to dump him so she can have him.
Now, i'm not saying thats exactly what she's thinking, but somewhere along the lines, she likes him.
Just forget about what happend, and tell your boyfriend that if you find out that this happens again, you'll just break up with him.
fly_anessa_13 answered Sunday February 4 2007, 11:41 am: whell talk to him and say i need you to tell me the truth and say do you like that girl because i have a problom and is that you no we can dance with other people but not win im kissing anther boy expeisily when its on the lips i branking up with you its ofer and pour red juice on him. [ fly_anessa_13's advice column | Ask fly_anessa_13 A Question ]
kenidean answered Sunday February 4 2007, 11:29 am: Aw, first of all, I'm sorry you have to deal with a long distance relationship. It is very nice of you to let him go to the dance with another girl too, haha I'm way more controlling then that. Usually I would say screw him. But..if he apologized all night long, and said it wouldn't happen again, I know it sounds bad, but I would give him another chance. Try to forget about it and tell him that if it EVER happens again, you are over. Because you shouldn't have to deal with that. [ kenidean's advice column | Ask kenidean A Question ]
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