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i love him
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 1:26 pm
Theres this boy, Jake, who is one of my best friends, ever. I love him, but he doesn't like me. I'm almost positive that he likes my best friend Jenna, who likes him. It hurts, but I love him and I just want him to be happy, even if its without me. But i'm afraid that she's going to hurt him. his ex girlfriend hurt him really badly last year, and im afraid that it Will happen again. I really, really want him to be happy, but i'm afraid that jennas feelings for him arent really that deep, or that its just a little thing that she'll get over. I really dont want to see him get hurt.
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going crazy cuz of him...
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 1:25 pm
okay..so this has been my problem for 2 months now. me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. i wanna forget about him but it seems like i cant. like i mean i try liking another guy to keep him off my mind but..he just shows up again. i know he's going to stay in my heart because he was my first kiss and love. after me he already has 2 exs and now a gf. but.. in my head it feels like he's rubbing his gf and his last 2 exs on my face to make me jelous but..they didnt last as long as we did..which was 2 months. my ex and i almost have the same friends and we hang out at the same place and we have 5 out 6 classes together. so its hard to get him out of my face. we try to be friends[i guess] but it doesnt work because all we do is argue or make eacho...
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I cannot tell
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 1:06 pm
Last month my boy mate asked me to go to his family's house party he said
"I was wondering if you'd like to with me"
"if you say no dont tell people"
did he mean this as mates or dates because I dont know.I said no though.
But I've only known him for a few months and a couple of weeks ago everyone said he liked this other girl.I just want to know...was he asking me out?????????
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Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 9:31 am
My crush likes my best friend
and she might like him back
i dont know..
i dont want to talk things out because where i live that doesnt work.
help?
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love life
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 2:48 am
Hi...just wantd an advice.i was gng out wid a boy for 3 yrs n i really loved him.in our 3rd yr i didnt hear abt him for abt 2 months.i tried contactng him bt he didnt reply to any of my calls.then one day he told me he had sme serious health probs n that he is fine now so we started gng out together.Now in jan 2007 we broke up again bt he still wants to meet me only to make love bcoz he has again some health prob.i told him no.he told me he wont b able to walk in sometime thats y he broke up wid me..he was quite serious wen tellng. i dnt kno whether to believe in him or not...i need advice :) thnx
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Going further...
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 2:13 am
(22, F)- I've been going out with a guy for a little over a month now. I feel comfortable enough letting him lick/touch my breasts. But that's as far as I want to take things at this point. The other day I let him go 2nd base, and of course we were both worked up and 'in the moment.' I know that we'll both want to take things further, but I'm not comfortable enough to let that happen just yet.
I'd like to hear from guys/girls: what kind of torture is it for a guy to have a girl who will only go 2nd base for a while? I mean, I can imagine what's going on in his mind, wondering,"when is it going to happen?"
Again, I'm content with the level we're at, but guys I think can be different in that sense (not that I don'...
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Bad Breath?
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 1:01 am
Alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for like monthsss..and lately its hard to want to kiss him cause hes got a lil bit stinky breath..but he doesnt know it. i always offer him these mints just because i like them a lot and i always have a bunch but they dont help your breath they just taste good.
What can i possibly do to maybe make his breath smell better without telling him cause thatd be awkward and kinda mean....Esh!
Thanks for the helpppp.
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The one girl i like
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 12:35 am
ok since my last few questions i finaly made up my mind about who i should ask out, but this girl shes realy quiet and the only times i could ak her is going to my home room or PE so my problem is how should i go up toher and ask her?
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comment on how my boyfriend looks
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 12:30 am
Sometimes I want to tell my boyfriend that he looks good.... but how do I say it?
The thing is, I don't want to say GOOD or beautiful. :/
I only know of cute. I joke around with pretty.
I comment about his eyes a lot.. But the 'cute' thing gets old.
Or does it not?
*Your opinion?*
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should i tell her how I feel
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 12:08 am
Should i send this to the girl i really like. she has been sending me the most confusing signals possible!
" , I hope what I can write here will clear things up a bit. I apologize for causing distress. I am to much of a character to not rip apart the people I wish to do only good for. But there are things I do I regret, and actions I take which I don’t know why. All I want is you. for all your amazing personality traits and amazing attributes. There is nothing I think I can do to win your love. Nothing would feel right around you. ther is always this qua-zay odd feeling. One of those people who I don’t hug when we depart, yet the one who I would love to embrace for an eternity. Why is there such distance. I kno I say...
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My friends b/f...maybe ex soon?
Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 12:06 am
I know it's long but PLEASE help!
Okay so i'm always there for my friends. Even if they're against each other. My friend Sarah doesn't love her b/f anymore and he knows that she likes this other boy. [The boys hate each other] and i'm there for her because she is confused and doesn't know what to do. She is 13 turning 14 and he is 14 turning 15. They have been together for a year. On and off and on and off. But now she doesn't love him anymore. Drove him home tonight, told him not to do anything stupid and hes liek why what does it matter. I gave him my number and told him to call me later. I got home and he called me. I told him don't do anything stupid she still does care for him. And hes like no she doesnt shes gonna break...
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Appearance
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 11:54 pm
15/f (16 this year)
I recently got caught up on my appearance. As a young girl I used to look in the mirror and promise myself I was beautiful and not let anyone tell me otherwise. I grew older and began to give in to the pressure to look good. I made my best attempt to keep the matter in perspective, and I now have a look that I think is great.However, it did make me spend many nights worrying and obsessing.
Unfortunately, when I look around a room of people I still compare myself to other girls. (Immature) guys just care about looks right now, and when a guy is paying attention to some other girl I'm tempted to think I'm ugly and undeserving of their attention.
This insecurity rarely shows thro...
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cheating.
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 9:32 pm
Okay well to make it short me and my boyfriend have been dating for a yr and 1/2. And a few months ago we started arguing alot. Im scared hes cheating on me and i dont know what to do. He seems annoyied with me all the time he never calls me he always yells and screams at me. And he never likes me looking through is phone he like has a fit if i ask to see it. And theres this girl that likes him. He wont admit she likes him but lets not state the obvious. So anyway i was looking at her myspace, she had a hat on and my boyfriend has the SAAAAME exact hat and they are both in the same lunch. They were sitting at the lunch table together with a few other people but sopposibly "He sits at a different table" I know its his hat he told m...
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Family or Jealousy
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 8:53 pm
I already asked this question earlier and got some feed back but I wanna put it back up at the top and see if I get some more oppinions before I develop my own conclusion...
Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed...
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do i still like my ex???
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 8:43 pm
i went out with this guy and 1st i liked him then i didnt and it kept going on and off and then i broke up with him. so heres my problem i still feel like i kinda like him like when he signs on aim i jut want to talk to him!! and he still likes me so if i tell him i like him hell ask me out....but when i think about going out with him i feel like i dont like him anymore! but when were not going out i do!!! im really confused!
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Is it wrong to only like masterbating
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 8:36 pm
I'm a girl and I have been masterbating since I was about 4 years old and always with a blanket. I am now 18 and recently lost my virginity to a guy I liked. Our relationship didnt last too long after, mainly because I liked masterbating instead of sex. Is this unusual to like masterbating instead of sex and do I need to maybe get some sex therapy or something because wont this maybe mess up my love life later on?
Thanks.
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i need a girl
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 6:03 pm
hi,i am looking for a nice and hot girl for marriage,but when ever i saw a girl infront of me,i just cant ask her and my toung start mumbling,,,becouse i dont have courage to ask a girl becouse everytime a thing got scared me that if she say somthing to me or if i got a negative feedback then what i would do,i never ask a girl before i am still virgin,i am now 24,so what should i do,? sum time i ashamed my self that i dont have any girl friend,i know i m a hot guy,and all girls look at me when ever i passed them in way,but i cant ask them i just smile and thats it,, lol.. realy tell me what should i do,
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I'm reposting again. I'd really like some advice!
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 5:36 pm
I was molested by a family member of mine when I was little. I don't remember what happened at all and I've questioned my sexuality since I was 11 or 12 years old.
I've been afraid of penis' since I started fooling around with guys at 13.
I don't know what it is but unless I'm "under the influence" I can't muster up the guts to go down on my most current boyfriend.
Now, I've done it before but every time there's a new guy involved, I freak out.
I really feel like I'm being selfish to my boyfriend. I've also talked to my sister and him about it, but it just seems like there's nothing anyone can say to make me feel better about the whole thing.
What in the world should I do?
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He's a cutie
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 5:30 pm
so theres this guy and we sorta got really close over winter break and we made out and stuff and then all the sudden he stopped talking to me.. i found out that my friend told him i liked him and to back off because i did. well, he listened to her and doesnt talk to me much and idk i sorta do like him but not enough that it even shows, but i still want to be friends with him.. and i try to have online convos with him but they just seem akward so i guess... what can i talk with him about.. like what are guys interested in talking about with girls.. or how do i get into like a really flirty convo with him?
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love
Posted Friday March 23 2007, 5:26 pm
James: one of my best friends ever
Joy: another best friend
In the beginning of the year, James liked me. im not going to go into detail about how i know,. but im positive. and anyway, i didnt think i did then. i was just so confused about it, so he found out that i didnt like him, and nothing ever happpened. but more recently, i've started to really like him. i actually think that i lov ehim, i really do. but my friend said that sheee thinks he likes joy, who i've been best friends with for more than 5 years. i kiund of see it. im pretty sure he doesnt like me. all i want is for him to be happy, and if thats going to make him happy, then i guess im glad. but it still hurts, a lot. especially since i dont think she lik...
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