hi,i am looking for a nice and hot girl for marriage,but when ever i saw a girl infront of me,i just cant ask her and my toung start mumbling,,,becouse i dont have courage to ask a girl becouse everytime a thing got scared me that if she say somthing to me or if i got a negative feedback then what i would do,i never ask a girl before i am still virgin,i am now 24,so what should i do,? sum time i ashamed my self that i dont have any girl friend,i know i m a hot guy,and all girls look at me when ever i passed them in way,but i cant ask them i just smile and thats it,, lol.. realy tell me what should i do,
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? connieconfused answered Friday March 23 2007, 6:32 pm: Hmmm. This is a really interesting thing about guys. The truth is that you have to treat girls like sports. what I mean is you gotta take the good wtih the bad. When you go out there to make a play you don't say "Oh what if the other person knocks me over, or what if I fumble the ball, or what if I trip" You just go out there and do what you gotta do to try to win and if you lose you lose and if you win then that is AWESOME! You got your self a trophy! So you know just see a girl and say "Hi" i like your : shirt, necklace, hair, nails, something" She'll prolly go on after that and just listen to what she is saying and ask her questions about what she says in responce. When she asks you questions, answer them Honestly! Girls Love Honesty! They rather you be honest and not like what you say, than for you to lie and they find out later. I would say that is most women. Be your self and deal with people who like you for who you are. There is always someone out there who finds you interesting and attractive. Be confident in how the creator made you! Peace. [ connieconfused's advice column | Ask connieconfused A Question ]
Alin75 answered Friday March 23 2007, 6:23 pm: Ok, this may well qualify as one of our strangest questions. How about not thinking about marriage, or sex, and just asking a girl you like out for night in town (or something like that, whatever you like to do in your spare time).
Then, without really thinking about the future implications or your virginity, just go and have some fun. Eventually you will hopefully meet some girl you connect with well enough to consider marriage. But, until then, I think you need to take the pressure off yourself, and just let things happen naturally. Talk, laugh, have some fun... and see if it leads to anything. [ Alin75's advice column | Ask Alin75 A Question ]
coOokiie answered Friday March 23 2007, 6:21 pm: LOL !!!
Thats what i do ii just smile
just try wheather your get a negative or positive feedback no one is always gonna get a yes if they say no like you said your hot girls always look at you there you go if one says no move on im sure one will say yes and if your to shy just do it over txting or phOne
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