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(22, F)- I've been going out with a guy for a little over a month now. I feel comfortable enough letting him lick/touch my breasts. But that's as far as I want to take things at this point. The other day I let him go 2nd base, and of course we were both worked up and 'in the moment.' I know that we'll both want to take things further, but I'm not comfortable enough to let that happen just yet.
I'd like to hear from guys/girls: what kind of torture is it for a guy to have a girl who will only go 2nd base for a while? I mean, I can imagine what's going on in his mind, wondering,"when is it going to happen?"
Again, I'm content with the level we're at, but guys I think can be different in that sense (not that I don't want certain things.. I want to know him a little more).
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I commend you for your sensibility.
It's okay for you to want to wait and get to know him better. Actually... It's very wise. If you feel that you should discuss this with him.. Then go ahead. I don't need to tell you what to say, I'm sure you'll figure it out all by yourself. ;) Just be honest and stick to your principles.
I would also like to mention that real men will wait. Trust me... I know.
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Talk about it. Let him know that you aren't ready to
go further right now. Explain it to him as you have here. Not that it will never happen, but that you want to get to know him better first.
The thing is, it will take some of the pressure off him too. He doesn't have to worry that you EXPECT him to do more. He knows where to stop and that you will let him know when to proceed. :)
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o my god i admire you for your choices i am so gladd to hear some one is thinking and i think you should want to get to know him before you you know him and thanxs for being another hero and if he dosnt stand on the groung you do i thank its time to let him go
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