Last month my boy mate asked me to go to his family's house party he said
"I was wondering if you'd like to with me"
"if you say no dont tell people"
did he mean this as mates or dates because I dont know.I said no though.
But I've only known him for a few months and a couple of weeks ago everyone said he liked this other girl.I just want to know...was he asking me out?????????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? angie91 answered Saturday March 24 2007, 2:47 pm: Hey this is a tough question, because he could have been saying either, but I am assuming that he did mean it as a date. I think you shoul ask him though and see what he ment it as. Tell him how you feel and just so you know, rumours are rumours are rumours. They can be true, but usually they arent so if you really want to know you'll have to ask him, but if he's your friend then he should understand right?
This may be a little difficult, but I think you can do it. If you act coll about it and let him know that you're totally fine, then it shouldnt be too awkward. What the worst that can happen?
Good luck, and I hope I helpped. Lots of love,
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DearAbby92 answered Saturday March 24 2007, 2:35 pm: I think he was asking you out.
What he meant by dont tell people was he didnt want people to know you rejected him.
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