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love life
Hi...just wantd an advice.i was gng out wid a boy for 3 yrs n i really loved him.in our 3rd yr i didnt hear abt him for abt 2 months.i tried contactng him bt he didnt reply to any of my calls.then one day he told me he had sme serious health probs n that he is fine now so we started gng out together.Now in jan 2007 we broke up again bt he still wants to meet me only to make love bcoz he has again some health prob.i told him no.he told me he wont b able to walk in sometime thats y he broke up wid me..he was quite serious wen tellng. i dnt kno whether to believe in him or not...i need advice :) thnx
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Well, you should probably talk to some of his friends about him. I mean, do you, in your heart, believe him? You should always trust your heart, no matter what. Sometimes, yes, you will definately be wrong with your heart, but that is how life will show you the difference between wright and wrong. Just be careful, on whatever decision you make.
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Hey,
Well you never know, but if you cant trust him you should go out with him. If you think that he's just saying that to get you to sleep with him that don't. Yeah he may feel like he spared you by mot making you deal with his health problem, but who knows what it is and he could be contageous, if he wont tell you what it is then I wouldnt sleep with him. He sorta sounds like one of those guys that fades in and out and doesnt keep you posted on whats going on in their life, and is that someone you really want to be with? It's your choice, and we cant make if for you, but you have to decide.
If you want some more advice and want to go into detail a bit more I dont mind helpping, however, I must say, that this is one of the only occaisons where I will answer someones question that has so many spelling problems. You know how to spell, and you spell bcoz and gng? I don't understand how someone can ask for our help and yet not follow one of the main rules "Use proper grammer and spelling" if it was an accident I would totally forgive you for it, but you are just delibertly doing it, and I want to help you, but I can't stand that, so know that if you want more than three people to answer your questions, or you want valid advice from me, spell wid with.
I hope I gave you some advice, and I hope you took what I just said as advice as well, if you want to get somewhere in life, you'll have to grow out of that, and it'll just be easier if you start early. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Lots of love,
Angie91
P.s. I already answered this question but I came back because I felt bad for what I said, and I was going to change it, but you know what, if you want to give me a bad rating for it I dont care, because I tried hard to give you good advice, and I dont care about ratings I care about the people who ask the questions. If you want to take my advice it is there for you and you can choose to take it or not. I hope I didnt ofend you by anything I said, but I also hope that you learn a thing or two about how to respectfully ask for help. Good luck.
P.S.S
I don't know if you'll ever read this, and I wish I had some other way of telling you, but I would like to apologize for correcting you liek that. I didnt read Tina_duh's message and if I had I wouldnt have treated your message the way I had. I just do not like when people treat this site as a chat room to spell words wrong and stuff. I'm sorry for being so sturn and I hope that you don't leave this site liek you said you would, because really we arent all bad people and I shouldnt have put it that way. I'm sorry, and I hope you can forgive me and On behave of Tina_Duh as well. Good luck, and I hope you feel better.
Yours,
Angie91
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dont listen to TiNA_DUH shes probly on her period or something but it looks like a scam to me one time this boy told me he was going away for a long time and he knew i loved him so he took advantage of it and said he wanted to have sex scince he was my first to everything eles i was listenin to how much of a pig he was and i believed him till he was at school the next day so if he loves you he can also wait to make love but to some boys its just sex and dont be stupid and listen to every lie becuase once its gone its not comein back and if lost dosent mean you have to do it everyday so good luck and think
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No wonder why he dumped you. You can't spell, and by the way you type, you don't look like you can hold a relationship that lasts longer than a week.
I think you should believe him.
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