angie91 answered Saturday March 24 2007, 12:43 pm: Hey!
Well its difficult when you cant talk about it, but I understand, I think that you basically have two different paths you can take. You can be a potentially bad friend and make a move on him, or you can move on.
Both are difficult and neither are fun, but if you cantt alk it out then there isnt much else of a choice.
So lets say you make a move on him, I would suggest talking to your friend, but you already mentioned thats not an option, so instead what tyou have to do is just ask him out or whatever you want ot do to get him to go out with you, and hope he says yes. (IF you want some more tips with that I can help you, I just want to keep this simple). If he doesnt thats okay, you still should commend yourself for trying and taking a chance.
If he says no, then you can go straight to the other option. Well this option is moving on. Basically you just have to get over him, A few things that you can try are getting involved (joining a club) making new friends or trying to find another guy to concentrate on. I have a billion of those, so if you need some more, I can go more into detail.
This is a tough situation, and I can help you with it if you want. It sucks that you cant talk things out, but I understand, some places and people are just liek that.
I really hope I helpped, and this works out for you, I can help youmore if you want, lots of love,
Angie91 [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
christina answered Saturday March 24 2007, 12:21 pm: How does it not work where you live? Talking things out works in all environments. Maybe people are doing it irationally so that's why it doesn't work.
Talk to her about it calmly. If she's a good friend, she won't go out with him for the sake of your feelings, but if you're a good friend, you'd want your friend to be happy. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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