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Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 11:13 pm
I'm just so lost and i feel so stupid because i've never really had a relationship before..btw 15/f. and i met this boy awhile ago and i had a crush on him when we first met, but i swear i have a crush on all the guys i first met. and now recenlty were talkin again and i think hanging out tomorrow. and it was about a month since we've talked. and my crush is back and he just told me he found out the girl he KINDA liked had a bf. so there is hope for me. but ahh i'm so lost. how do i know if i really like him, i'm pretty sure i do because when i hear his name i always direct my attetion to that conversation, look for him in the hall way to say hi, when my phone rings i just have a little hope its him, and when i see his friends i look behind...
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whats he thinking
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 9:51 pm
ok well i have been talking to this guy for about a month, we have hung out about 4-5 times (my work schedule is crazy) and i stayed with him the other night, he has been sick and we usually text each other a lot but lately he hasnt texted me, is it because he is sick? he said he would date someone like me but he doesnt wanna jump into anything too soon, so i dont really know what to think. i mean hes sooo sweet....when his pit bull bit me he kissed my finger,,,,he tells me he loves kissing my sweet soft lips...and stuff like that...so what is going through his mind?
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Why am i afarid to kiss my bf
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 9:17 pm
SO i have a boyfriend, we have been going out for a month. We always cuddle, when we see eachother and we see eachother 6 times while dating. We do kiss but not make out. I dont know why, but I feel like I cant kiss. But the thing is, Ive done lot of kises with other guys..& make outs & they said i was good. But now i feel like i cant kiss, & i love my boyfriend so much, I just dont know why. Well, my question is what can I do to give me confident to kiss my love? Like make out, i dont want him to think im bad:s
Thanks for help:)
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not sure how i feel
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 8:32 pm
ok there is this kid, lets call him josh for example. Well josh definitly likes me and there is no doubt about that and well i cant decide if i like him or not. he's a great friend and he listens to me and he cares about me and he doesn't think im pathetic when i cry and get depressed. He's a really nice guy but i can't see myself being intimate with him. He's not very attractive and sometimes he can be really dorky and he is also obsessed with the army which i am not so i don't know what to do. He has really small lips and they are sort of curved inward so i cant imagine kissing him. But he has muscles which is a turn on. Any advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated.
im afraid if he asked me out i woldn't know what to sa...
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is it ok if i...he......she.....=/
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 7:21 pm
hey well hopefully this isint so confusing...
mmm ok well i like this one guy and im thinking that i might give up hopes on him you know..well theres this other guy miguel who ive been known&he iz trying to go out with me but then my friend kindah has a crush on him...i mean were not like omg best friends or anything shes just a girl in my 5th period class whom i talk to whenever i see her but we dont hang out or anything...well anyways i told her about the guy liking me so she wouldnt get her hopes up for nothing but the thing is that she says its ok and that i should go for it but i still feel kind of messed up if i do decide to go with him `yadameaniiez?! she says it kool if i go for it&dat she will get over it but somethi...
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yes or no? preferably guys, but grls can answer, too
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 6:38 pm
if your ex asked you to go to the movies with her/him - as friends - and you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, would you still say yes or no?
i'm thinking of asking my ex to go to the movies during our spring break, which is in about 2 weeks, but i don't know if he would say yes or no since he has a girlfriend. all i really wanna do is see him since i haven't seen him for like, 2 years. so i was wondering what YOU would say.
thanks.
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i think i like him but im not sure
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 6:36 pm
ok there is this kid, lets call him josh for example. Well josh definitly likes me and there is no doubt about that and well i cant decide if i like him or not. he's a great friend and he listens to me and he cares about me and he doesn't think im pathetic when i cry and get depressed. He's a really nice guy but i can't see myself being intimate with him. He's not very attractive and sometimes he can be really dorky and he is also obsessed with the army which i am not so i don't know what to do. He has really small lips and they are sort of curved inward so i can imagine kissing him. Any advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated.
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soo confused..
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 5:44 pm
I have this friend hes like my best buddy we have the greatest time together(well that how i feel it) umm i feel great around him, when he hugs me i just dont wanna let go of him... I think i like him..but i think its wrong to like him because he has a gf which is my friend also (well we talk sometimes)..but yeah i feel bad...oh yeah and i get jeaulous when i see them together but i know its wrong to feel that way...but i cant help it.. he once told me he felt attracted to me (like 2 weeks ago actually).. but i dont know if he was being serious...i dont know what to do.. should I keep liking him,tell him about my feelings, forget about him or what should I do??? please help me!!
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Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 5:01 pm
15/f ok so i have been dating this one guy on and off for about a yr and a half...none of our relationships ever last long like i think a month and a half was the longest and thats now and he has kissed other girls and made out with them but he has never kissed me. im not one to make the first move usually ever i just get to shy. alot of ppl think im prude but its not that i wouldnt want to makeout w a guy or whatever i really do!! but i just dont want to make a move. this guy i dont think i might be wrong has never made a first move...im pretty sure hes made a move but never the first one... some of his other girlfriends were pretty much sluts so yea. any suggestions? ik he isnt like scared to makeout with some1 cause he has alot of times ...
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how can i get my bf to make the first move
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 3:33 pm
14/f ok so my bf like won't make a flippin move!! its been a month and a half and he hasnt even kissed me yet. and im not that into making the first move and we have talked about him making a move cause im alot shyer then him ...im like pretty much known as the shy girl unless your my close friend then i never shutup and im that way with him so yea. but anyways do you have any other casual ideas of trying to get him to make a move cause i have tried everything.. ive talked to him about it, i had his friend talk to him about it and i have no idea what else i should try please help!!
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Boyfriend..
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 2:13 pm
Im 14/f and he is 15/m
Well, lately My boyfriend and i haven't had anything to talk about on the phone. It seems like we have drifted apart. We have been going out for 5 months and 9 days. I love him, but im not in love with him. He has a low self esteem and thats a major turn off for me. Just because me and him are so different. But, i dont know what happened? I mean this just started getting this way. And we fight constantly about the most stupid things ever. And every little thing he does annoys me like crazy. And he'll get mad over little stuff. And to be honest he acts like a girl. Always whining and getting upset about something. I dont want our relationship to end, but in a way i do. But for now since i am in doubt, i ...
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Love problems
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 11:14 am
I, 16/m, should probably tell you now I'm gay or you lose the entire premise of this. okay, so It was New Year's Eve and I called one of my friends (we'll call him Jake for further analysis.) Jake, 14/m, and we started talking. Jake's an eighth grader and I'm a high school sophmore. So I told him that I liked him on New Year's, thinking that he didnt like me back. Well, he did. So we dated for the next week and then I answered the phone and he told me, "your not gonna like this," and I mean, I got pretty scared. Well, then he said, "I gotta go, I'll ttyl," and then right before he hung up, he goes, "I'm straight."
So Im thinking okay, I need to talk to him and see if our friendship is still...
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is it bad if im tall
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 1:41 am
is it bad if im 14 that is 5ft 10???? tell hte truth
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family and marriage
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 1:29 am
ok me and my boyfriend are getting married when were 19 but were doing it secretly so my parents don't know. Is this a bad thing to do even if my parents do not accept him. I knooow you might say im too youn but weve been dateing for over 2 years and it's the only way i can be happy because at home with my parents im miserable but when im with him im happy i feel no weight on my shoulders. We've only been on 5 dates sice we have been going out and i only see him at school and thats it. myparents keep me isolated from him. Someone please help i don't know what to do. I love him and want to marry him but then again i feel like imm back stabbing my parents.
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it's just casual.
Posted Thursday March 29 2007, 12:48 am
15/f. in may 2006, i started talking to this alot. we even started saying we loved each other, like REALLY, not just as friends. so now, we are going out and we still say we love each other, but it doesn't really seem like it means anything. he's not the mushy-gushy-lovey kind of person, so how can i let him know that i really DO love him?
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my boyfriend.
Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 11:27 pm
ok well i have to questions how do i get my boyfriend to make-out with me under the stairs? and another thing whenever we make out he always slobbers on me a little bit and its like a wet kiss and its kinda gross .. what should i do?
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want to get closer to her
Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 11:14 pm
I'd like to get to know this girl better. she sits a few seats behind me in one of my class's. It would seem awkward to just approach her. we chat occasionally but I would like to get to know her better. she has a great personallity, or so it seems. and she seems to be someone i could get to become close friends with. how do i initiate a conversation at least, and maybe ask her if she wanted to get otgether or somthing. just looking for a means to create a close friendship, possibly a close relationship later on. im older then her, but very unexperianced. i can be a bit eccentric and quirky at times, but i don't want to creep her out or anything. thanks in advance
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Heart broken
Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 10:06 pm
Please someone help me.. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and 14 days today.. We have been doing really good lately.. But she is one of those girls who wants to talk to me CONSTANTLY and believe me i like it.. But sometimes it can be to much.. She gets mad at me when i want to go anywhere with my friends.. But the other day i told her she was to attached.. And i didnt mean it i was just mad because of how she kept getting mad.. But now i feel horrible because i have hurt her in the past.. And i love her more than anything in this world and i hate myself for hurting her.. Can someone please tell me how to appoligize to her and make it better. But dont say to tell her that i said it out of anger or to just appoligize because i have a...
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this one is for guys and girls. just help
Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 9:45 pm
okay i am super shy. i am almost sixteen and i cant seem to get a boyfriend for nothing. i just dont really know how to approch a guy. like not neccessarily a guy i know but how do i approch a guy if i am like out of state and just want to hook up and hang out. like what is a good line to start with if you are just meeting someone. help would be great.
ps. guys: what do you find attractive in a girl? like how do you like girls to act around you?
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too early?
Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 9:38 pm
13/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months and i want to say i love you but do you think its too early? like i dont want him too freak out if he doesnt feel that way back. what should i do?
thanks. :)
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