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15/f ok so i have been dating this one guy on and off for about a yr and a half...none of our relationships ever last long like i think a month and a half was the longest and thats now and he has kissed other girls and made out with them but he has never kissed me. im not one to make the first move usually ever i just get to shy. alot of ppl think im prude but its not that i wouldnt want to makeout w a guy or whatever i really do!! but i just dont want to make a move. this guy i dont think i might be wrong has never made a first move...im pretty sure hes made a move but never the first one... some of his other girlfriends were pretty much sluts so yea. any suggestions? ik he isnt like scared to makeout with some1 cause he has alot of times so its not like he doesnt want to or isnt ready but idk what it is with him like should i just work stop being so shy and just do it? but im always scared that something terrible i like him alot more then ive ever liked any1 and i dont want to mess things up... im just scared that he will break up w me if i dont and i have madeout w other guys before so that isnt the issue im not really this nervous when making out w some1 i dont like this much sorry if this question is really confusing but please help! the more advice the better!
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no stress. i know, its nerve-racking. you could tell a friend that if he made a move, you would kiss him back. and then it will get around to him. And then, he will know to make the move. Or, hint it out to him. you could say, everybody has been telling me what a good kisser you are, but i havent gotten a chnace to find out for myself yet. or, you could sort of half make the move, and let him finish it. like get half way to kissing him and then he will know he has to kiss you.
if your going to make the move, dont think about it. just do it on an impulse. if you think it through, you might chicken out. just do it, get it over with. ittle be fine, dont worrry. if he will break up with you if you dont kiss him, he dosent seem like a very good boyfriend. but if you want to, just take a deep breath and do it. You might want to look aat these websites, about making the first move, but you know abut kissing because youve done it. but yeah, its how to make the first move. Sources:
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I don't think I could have put it any better than rebeccaa123. :] If he has made out with other girls before it's not something he is allergic to or anything so when you think the time is right just go for it. :]
When it's all said and done you'll find it wasn't all that hard to do at all.
On a side note, if you're afraid he would break up with you just becuse you won't make out with him then he would be a guy who seems to care more about what he will get out of you than what the relationship will bring you both. :/ A guy like that is generally a guy best avoided I think.
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okay.. this sounds like a PERFECTLY "me" problem. haha. i can definately answer this. guys like girls to make the first move. and well they are basically just to afraid to. just like most girls.. so if you are scared to, just remember, that he WANTS you to, so it won't be embarassing.. but mabye before you do just be like.. wanna makeout? or something like that. haha.. but don't be embarrased. cause thats the worst thing you can do.
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okay well in away this is very simple just start out with a regular kiss on the lips then kiss him a gain and maybe antoher time staying real close to him and then just star making out with him....and if you don't like him like you say just picture the guy you do like or a really hot singer or actor.
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