My name is Rebecca. I don't know, i've always been good at giving advice. Even since I was little. I've helped my friends in many occasions. My specialties are boyfriend girlfriend relationships because i've been through every kind of bad relationship you could have. Also, I'm good if you are having a fight with a friend, or family member. Basically anything that hurts your heart. So, ask me anything and don't be shy!
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15 / F
I'm in a square with female best friend, a boy that likes me, and the boy that likes me's best friend, who is my crush. Yes, it is a very messed up square. My crush claims he likes a girl who is NOT my best friend, but I feel like he likes my best friend more than he likes me. I am very, VERY jealous. She's known him for a much shorter amount of time, yet he's nicer to her, AND they talk through more than one form of communication. I feel very sad & can't talk to anyone about it. NO ONE IN THE SQUARE knows i like him, or even that I like ANYONE. I can't simply tell my friend to stop being all over him because she has no idea i like him. I just need to find a way to overcome my jealousy. I've already attempted googling, "overcoming jealousy" but they're all about jealousy WITHIN a relationship! I am not in a relationship with him. The websites say, "You have no right to be jealous because he is WITH YOU. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be with you." But that just made me feel worse.
Help me please. (link)
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okay, yeah, you should tell your best friend you like him, but there is NOTHING wrong with liking guys that don't like you back. You can't help it. Right now i am going through the same problem, and well it's hard to take my own advice so here's my advice to you....
Find someone you really like. There has to be another guy. You shouldn't feel nervous to tell your friend you like him cause first of all, if she hasn't told you yet, then that's her fault. Second, she's your BEST friend, she can't get mad at you for a boy. So do what your heart tells you.
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there's this girl that I can't talk to well I mean I don't have enough confidence to talk to her. I don't know what to say to her but I really like her a lot give me some advice to help me.
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alright. well girls are pretty easy to figure out if you ask me. so to talk to her, it shouldn't take much confidence. but like the person under me, we need some backround information on her. whats she like? are you friends with her? have you talked to her before? you know, stuff like that. please check back if you would like me to answer.:)
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theires a new guy at our school and hes supppeerr cute
all the girls lovee him and for some reason, he thinks im really hott and wants to hook up with meee! (as in make out now sex hook up)
anyways i know it and so does everybody else but the thing is we've never talked cuz he came a week ago and we have no classes.
we have lotss of mutuals friends, but idk how it could be so that we'd be friends? because its awkward because as of now he doesnt even know that i know who he is, buit he knows that i know the new guy as a stalker of me... so what should i do so that we can talkk (link)
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well if he's new here you obviously want to make a good impression. so if you don't talk to him, he will think that oh she hates me. so just go up to him and be like hey your new right? i heard some things about you. or something like that.
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umm...ok hi.
i like this boy Dakota and he likes me. and wen wnt out for about 2 months but too much drama got started so we broke ^. but we REALLY want to go bak out but we r afraid that if we do drama will get started again but we still REALLY like each other....plezz help. we r just....so lost.. (link)
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okay, i just got into a relationship like this. if they start gossip, they aren't your true friends. don't let it get in the way of your happiness=D
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15/f ok so i have been dating this one guy on and off for about a yr and a half...none of our relationships ever last long like i think a month and a half was the longest and thats now and he has kissed other girls and made out with them but he has never kissed me. im not one to make the first move usually ever i just get to shy. alot of ppl think im prude but its not that i wouldnt want to makeout w a guy or whatever i really do!! but i just dont want to make a move. this guy i dont think i might be wrong has never made a first move...im pretty sure hes made a move but never the first one... some of his other girlfriends were pretty much sluts so yea. any suggestions? ik he isnt like scared to makeout with some1 cause he has alot of times so its not like he doesnt want to or isnt ready but idk what it is with him like should i just work stop being so shy and just do it? but im always scared that something terrible i like him alot more then ive ever liked any1 and i dont want to mess things up... im just scared that he will break up w me if i dont and i have madeout w other guys before so that isnt the issue im not really this nervous when making out w some1 i dont like this much sorry if this question is really confusing but please help! the more advice the better! (link)
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okay.. this sounds like a PERFECTLY "me" problem. haha. i can definately answer this. guys like girls to make the first move. and well they are basically just to afraid to. just like most girls.. so if you are scared to, just remember, that he WANTS you to, so it won't be embarassing.. but mabye before you do just be like.. wanna makeout? or something like that. haha.. but don't be embarrased. cause thats the worst thing you can do.
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well. there is this really hot girl at my school, i think her name is rebecca leblanc. but im too scared to approach her, how do i go about doing that?
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haha you go up to her and grab her boobs......
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Okay well i have a boyfriend and he loves me and cares for me and stuff but he wants to kiss me but i dont know if im ready i toled him i would but i keep puting it off . then i get pressured to do it my my friends anna, emma, and meagan. They all have boyfriends and they kiss. Do i have a problem that i cant kiss my boyfriend or not cuz i really want to kiss him. i just dont know how i should or how long. HELPPPPPP!!!!! (link)
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well..just don't be nervous.. when i was about to have my first kiss, i was so nervous, but when i was done with it, it felt really good and i wasn't nervous. if you really want to the go for it.
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ok so i no this girl
shes insaely obsessed with llamas
its hilarious
what to do? (link)
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um why would that be a problem?
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ok well im in love. i went out with this boy who is a few yrs older then me but im mature for my age so he really respects me and treats me rite. we went out [on & off] for a a yr and a half. he was my world we talked to eachother about everything even when me & him werent together and we went out with other ppl me and him always talked and always cared about eachother. but the last time we broke up everything changed. Me & him barely talk anymore, i am still completely in love with him and i would do anything to have him back in my life but he is always to busy our hanging out with his friends or something like that. I dont know what to do i want him to love me again.WHUT DO I DO? (link)
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make yourself noticeable. just start calling him again and be he closest friend.
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this boy asked me out to the movies. i said i couldent go because my mom wont let me go to the mall with boys. thats 100% true. So we've been talking thro texts (we go to diff. skools) and my bff is IMing his BFF and his BFF says that He has a sorta-gf. hes not the flirty type, but i am. so he knows that i like him because i told him. he didnt really answer. i think maybe hes shy or un-comftorble with all this. ive had bfs before, he hasnt had a gf. i love that about him. i dont want him to flirt with me, and ill stop if he wants me to but i dont know if he wants me to or not. just asking him flat out dosent work, he sort of avoids the subject. like i asked him if he had a gf because my friend said that he did and he sais " hoos ur friend" and i explain to him hoo my friend is and he says "do u have a bf?" so i told him that no, i didnt because i dont like anybody at my school and he says "I like somebody 4 a wile i talk 2 about this l8tr gd nite" and so now, im think he likes a girl from his school, which i could handle, but i need him to be honest with me and not aviod the subject. how do i get some real information out of him? i mean, how do i get him to be straight up with me and tell me if he dosent like me anymore? (link)
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well judgine by the way you spell things i say you're about my age or atleast age group 10-13
i think he likes you. because he's avoiding the subject, which means he's nervous. and that means he's nervous about telling you he likes you. now i may be wrong but i am pretty sure i am 100% right! hah okay. so all you can do is pretty much wait til you talk again and if he says anything the yipee=D
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Okay, so you may have seen the question about a week ago, but I'll fill you in. I'm a 14/f and a freshman.
The guy I like is a senior, and we are 4 years and 3 months apart in age. I REALLY like him a lot. He's not that cute, but he's nice and funny, AND he's a gentlemen.
Thing is, he's in LOVE with my best friend! She's a sophomore. He's been in love with her since June and obsesses over her ALL OF THE TIME. It's almost quite literally all him and I talk about when we talk.
We don't talk often, but I had Katie tell him I like him. He said "it feels nice to be liked."
I have a feeling he will NEVER EVER like me back. What should I do? Give up? And if so, HOW?
I've liked him since January (link)
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i disagree with the person below me. sounds to me like you're in love. the best thing you can do is be flirtyyy. don't give up! if your best friend doesn't like him(or atleast not as much as you) she should back off and let you be the one he talks to or hangs out with the most.. i guess what i'm saying is be the one that he enjoys talking to the most. talk to your friend about it and if she's a good friend, she will understand and back away from him.
I hope I helped=D
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welll.... im not gonna lie.. i am kinda popular.. but im not conceited about it at all. the thing is.. i really dont feel that popular.. i am really insecure and NO ONE knows that. i always think im fat.. or ugly or something. everyone tells me otherwise but i have really low self esteem. what do i do to fix that (link)
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well if people tell you you aren't fat or ugly that means you aren't! but if you are really feeling bad, you can try going on a diet, or a workout plan or something. and you can go to sephora and get like a makeover and ask them the give you a list of what they used on you. and if you are popular it doesn't matter because people like you anyways=D
hope i helped
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ok so ya i like love this guy and i honestly think i love him like hes amazing. we went out for about 3 and a half months and he broke up with me. like i went out with this other guy for about 7 months and i thought i loved him but like the feelings i feel for this guy is nothin like what i felt. when i see him i literally get butterflies. when he talks to me i like never want him to stop ya ya its corny but its so true. but the problem is he has no idea how much i care for him. like honestly i think the world i him. i did somethin for him tha other day and like all i wanted was for it to make him smile. when we were going out i was like really clingy but like lately ive tried hard not to be like we were at a party together and he came upstairs and i went downstairs then he went downstairs and like 2 seconds later i went up now i didnt make it like obvious i just kind of crept up and down ya no? well ya he was like i wanna talk to u! which made me feel better but ya to get to the point i dont no what to do like do i give up or what? like do i try and like be friends and try to get him to like me again?
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okay well that sounds a little like a situation i had in the past. okay just tell him how you feel!if he doesn't feel the same way you really can't do anything about it, but be yourself.
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i really like this guy and he doesn't like me and i think a lot of other people like him too... he ignores me sometimes and idk what to do...help =\ (link)
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well it helps to like stand out.. he will notice you more..just don't like embarass yourself haha..you can be silly and fun, just talk to him alot and make sure you put more effort into than the other girls. find out what he likes and go with that.
hope i helped=]
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13/f, kinda popular.
so i am desperatley in love with this guy
i have liked him since last year. we have been pretty good friends. my friends have told him alot of times about me liking him but he just ignores it. my guy friend is friends with him and tryed really hard to get us to go out but he didn't. then this girl asked him out and he was pressured to say yes because everyone new she asked him. then a couple weeks later he broke up with her and said that he never really liked her and that she was annoying. i kinda stopped liking him during that time but now i sit by him in science and fell for him again. i no i can never forget him so i really need help. i cant just go up and ask him to go out with me because i am really shy with guys, but i have talked to him as friends. a school dance is coming up if that helps. i really need your help asap! thanks in advance!~ (link)
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okay i understand your whole problem. my only most important answer is FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT. hah...trust me, but don't be too like "OMG HEY (whatever his name is) hehhe" lol just be like cool in a flirty wayyy hah.
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hey
well.. i like this guy. and i'm not saying i'm like in love with him and stuff cause i know i haven't been in love / will be in love anytime soon.
his locker is one over (except the girl that's between us never goes to her locker) and he's soo cute (link)
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hah okay. DON'T BE NERVOUS. just flirt..be laughy and talkative and mysterious. plsy hard to gey.even if he doesn't like you, it won't hurt to talk to him a little more and just be more flirty. Anyways it's worth a try and if he does like you then well there ya go, but if he doesn't, you'll know right away.also he might start to like you.you'll never know if you don't try. if things start to click, tell him you like him. and if they don't well save yourself the trouble.
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im so upset and deppressed right now..... i was dateing my ex for nine months we got in an arguement and he told me we needed to take a break and i was fine, now he doesnt want to be with me anymore and he keeps telling me if things get better than it might change what can i do to make him love me again, p.s dont tell me to get over him cause i cant, i really love him and i lost my virgenity to him please help (link)
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Just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him. Tell him how much you love him and how much you love being around him. If this is true, tell him he's the only boy you'll ever love again.
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Okay. So there's this guy at school, who's in tenth grade. His name is Tyler, and I'm in ninth grade. We both know we like each other, but I only met him 2 weeks ago. And he was telling my best friend that he wants to ask me out TONIGHT! But the problem is, I like him and all but I feel like things are moving way too fast. So how do I let him down easily without shoving him away? (link)
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just be like, i'm sorry i like you but, i'd like to get to know you better. And then we'll go from there
hope I helped=D
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My best guy friend, who I like, calls me to hangout everynight. If he doesn't, it's usually nota big deal, cause I have a class with him at school, and see him on the bus. But today he was on a field trip all day, and I haven't seen or talked to him once. It's making me really stressed, how can I take my mind off this? It's making me feel like shit that he hasn't called. (link)
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Don't get to caught up over this. Mabye he's just busy or is tired and went to sleep. Obviously he likes you or he wouldn't call you every night.
hope I helped=D
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15/f freshman
there's this kid in 2 of my classes & i kinda like him, but i dont kno if it's a fully developed crush yet as weird as that sounds.
i'm superrrrr shy. i don't talk a lot in class/participate, and talking to new people and especially guys is so hard. it's not as much worrying what people are going to think of me after i say something, but i just don't know what to say. (around my friends/family, i'm completely talkative) so anyway...
he knows who i am which is a start haha. (if this means anything: my friend went to florida for a band trip and she was texting me and all the people she was with were like who are you texting? and she said my name, and this kid i like asked if it was me [said my first and last name] :) so he knows who i am. plus this same friend IMed him on my sn, and he knew who i was then too. and i added him on myspace and he added back. so i have all this forms of communication with him, but i feel SOOO weird just talking to him. i don't know what to say. and i'll feel so stupid. like on myspace, he has all these comments from all these other girls (he's not super popular, but he talks to some people who are..he's also in marching band tho lol) so i'd feel so weird if i randomly comment him. what should i do?!?! my friend isn't always here to IM him for me, lol. thanksss! (link)
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Well girl, you like him, just get to know him. I know you are nervous but guys like girls who are spontaneous and are very open. First try to mabye comment him on myspace saying "Hey aren't you in my ----- class?"
if he likes you he'd comment back. and if he does comment back try smiling at him when he looks at you in class. And if h elikes you enough, he will come talk to you, mabye during class or in passing periods. Or mabye, if you get more confident, you could talk to him, mabye ask him to hang out. But don't be too open and inviting and play hard to get;]
hope I helped=D
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