this boy asked me out to the movies. i said i couldent go because my mom wont let me go to the mall with boys. thats 100% true. So we've been talking thro texts (we go to diff. skools) and my bff is IMing his BFF and his BFF says that He has a sorta-gf. hes not the flirty type, but i am. so he knows that i like him because i told him. he didnt really answer. i think maybe hes shy or un-comftorble with all this. ive had bfs before, he hasnt had a gf. i love that about him. i dont want him to flirt with me, and ill stop if he wants me to but i dont know if he wants me to or not. just asking him flat out dosent work, he sort of avoids the subject. like i asked him if he had a gf because my friend said that he did and he sais " hoos ur friend" and i explain to him hoo my friend is and he says "do u have a bf?" so i told him that no, i didnt because i dont like anybody at my school and he says "I like somebody 4 a wile i talk 2 about this l8tr gd nite" and so now, im think he likes a girl from his school, which i could handle, but i need him to be honest with me and not aviod the subject. how do i get some real information out of him? i mean, how do i get him to be straight up with me and tell me if he dosent like me anymore?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Debateist answered Thursday March 22 2007, 9:26 am: txt him and ask him too meet up with you then just sit down face to face this is defo a f2f situation if this isnt poss then phone him and just explain to him that if he likes another girl then all he has to do is say so and that you wont be hurt by it. But if he still changes the subject then I guess the only thing you can do up the flirtage and hope the he finally gets the courage to tell you how he feels.
Good luck
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rebeccaa123 answered Thursday March 22 2007, 8:35 am: well judgine by the way you spell things i say you're about my age or atleast age group 10-13
i think he likes you. because he's avoiding the subject, which means he's nervous. and that means he's nervous about telling you he likes you. now i may be wrong but i am pretty sure i am 100% right! hah okay. so all you can do is pretty much wait til you talk again and if he says anything the yipee=D [ rebeccaa123's advice column | Ask rebeccaa123 A Question ]
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