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I have to kiss my boyfriend HELP!!!!
Okay well i have a boyfriend and he loves me and cares for me and stuff but he wants to kiss me but i dont know if im ready i toled him i would but i keep puting it off . then i get pressured to do it my my friends anna, emma, and meagan. They all have boyfriends and they kiss. Do i have a problem that i cant kiss my boyfriend or not cuz i really want to kiss him. i just dont know how i should or how long. HELPPPPPP!!!!!
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mine was weird to. my friend told me i should practice on my hand. she also said let him leading and dont start to makeout till your 100% ready. because it would be ocward. also tell me if you do kiss him and what happens! w/b
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I was totally nervous my first time to...make sure you're alone for 1 so theres no embaressing moments for others to tell all about (drool teeth clank ext) and let him lead.Mail me and tell me what happens if you wnat (please do lol) Hope I helped !!
-Stephi-
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well..just don't be nervous.. when i was about to have my first kiss, i was so nervous, but when i was done with it, it felt really good and i wasn't nervous. if you really want to the go for it.
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Ok, well first of all, you seem really stressed, so take a DEPP BREATH.
Lol, NOW, call up your friends and tell them to shove it up their butts, because if they`re your real friends, they will stop pressuring you. You DO NOT, under ANY circumstances, have a PROBLEM. You just aren`t ready! Even if you DO want to kiss him, your sub-concious is going to RULE over haha.
If you DO kiss, here`s what you can do:
-Make sure you FLOSS. No boy wants to eat and kiss at the same time [ew!]
-Do not have a mustache...wax that upper lip hair!
-Take a few mints before doing it, but don`t make it too strong.
-Apply a delicious flavored lip gloss [bubblegum, mint, cotton candy, candy apple, etc.]
-If you are going for an close mouthed kiss, practice holding your breath, because if you breathe [through your nose or your mouth] you WILL be labeled a dragon.
-If you want to OPEN mouth kiss [makeout, macking, french kiss, etc.] then when you start to slide your tounge into his, relax your tounge...no one wants a stiff, had thing darting/poking around in his mouth.
* stick out your tounge right now- relax it. then, gently move your tounge right, center, left, center and REPEAT! *
-Let the guy lead [;
-Always tilt your head RIGHT. If you haven`t already noticed, you two will be facing each other -_- and when you are, his head will be tilted right too, which would be YOUR left.
If you have any more questions, just mail me!
Hope I helped and PLEASE let me know what you do, girlie!
<3L.
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you don't have to do anything that you dont want to. dont do anything that doesn't feel right, just go with your gut feeling. your friends aren't real friends. they should be supporting you, and understanding you, not pressuring you. if you let them convince you to do this now, they can convince you to do even worse things in the future because they know you're vulnerable/weak. talk to your boyfriend about this. if he doesn't want to be with you because of this, whatever. if he cares about you, he should be able to wait for you. you do not have a problem, everyone is ready to do different things at different times. if you really want to do something instead of kissing, just hug. hugs from friendly hugs to intimate hugs are another way of showing you care, but remember, you dont have to do this either. always go with your gut feeling. don't do anything uncomfortable.
hope i helped!
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