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blaaah! this kid/stupid me.
15/f freshman
there's this kid in 2 of my classes & i kinda like him, but i dont kno if it's a fully developed crush yet as weird as that sounds.
i'm superrrrr shy. i don't talk a lot in class/participate, and talking to new people and especially guys is so hard. it's not as much worrying what people are going to think of me after i say something, but i just don't know what to say. (around my friends/family, i'm completely talkative) so anyway...
he knows who i am which is a start haha. (if this means anything: my friend went to florida for a band trip and she was texting me and all the people she was with were like who are you texting? and she said my name, and this kid i like asked if it was me [said my first and last name] :) so he knows who i am. plus this same friend IMed him on my sn, and he knew who i was then too. and i added him on myspace and he added back. so i have all this forms of communication with him, but i feel SOOO weird just talking to him. i don't know what to say. and i'll feel so stupid. like on myspace, he has all these comments from all these other girls (he's not super popular, but he talks to some people who are..he's also in marching band tho lol) so i'd feel so weird if i randomly comment him. what should i do?!?! my friend isn't always here to IM him for me, lol. thanksss!
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Ha its okay I had to go through the similar stuff. Except mine was worser condition because I have never saw him in my school, later to find out he is home schooled. So only time I saw him was when he was working. Anywho, what i would suggest for you to do is to talk to him in person. I know it might sound hard because I can get very shy and that is one of the hard thing to do HOWEVER, if you dont get over your fear, you might end up like some people who only communicate through online and never even talk in person. How awkward is that?
So I would suggest for you to say hi to him but if it's bit hard, I have a planned out something for you... ( dont have to follow, this is just a mere suggestion XD)
Cmnt him... something like...
"hey wuts up? I havent seen you around school in a while... ya know what? i;ll say hi to you next time i see you"
then when you see him say..."Hey _____(fill in his name) hm... told ya i'd say hi..."
then casually ask him about band competition or whatever...
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Well girl, you like him, just get to know him. I know you are nervous but guys like girls who are spontaneous and are very open. First try to mabye comment him on myspace saying "Hey aren't you in my ----- class?"
if he likes you he'd comment back. and if he does comment back try smiling at him when he looks at you in class. And if h elikes you enough, he will come talk to you, mabye during class or in passing periods. Or mabye, if you get more confident, you could talk to him, mabye ask him to hang out. But don't be too open and inviting and play hard to get;]
hope I helped=D
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write him a message personally and give it to him telling him u like him and see how that goes
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