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love SQUARE! 15 / F
I'm in a square with female best friend, a boy that likes me, and the boy that likes me's best friend, who is my crush. Yes, it is a very messed up square. My crush claims he likes a girl who is NOT my best friend, but I feel like he likes my best friend more than he likes me. I am very, VERY jealous. She's known him for a much shorter amount of time, yet he's nicer to her, AND they talk through more than one form of communication. I feel very sad & can't talk to anyone about it. NO ONE IN THE SQUARE knows i like him, or even that I like ANYONE. I can't simply tell my friend to stop being all over him because she has no idea i like him. I just need to find a way to overcome my jealousy. I've already attempted googling, "overcoming jealousy" but they're all about jealousy WITHIN a relationship! I am not in a relationship with him. The websites say, "You have no right to be jealous because he is WITH YOU. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be with you." But that just made me feel worse.
Help me please.
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okay, yeah, you should tell your best friend you like him, but there is NOTHING wrong with liking guys that don't like you back. You can't help it. Right now i am going through the same problem, and well it's hard to take my own advice so here's my advice to you....
Find someone you really like. There has to be another guy. You shouldn't feel nervous to tell your friend you like him cause first of all, if she hasn't told you yet, then that's her fault. Second, she's your BEST friend, she can't get mad at you for a boy. So do what your heart tells you. ]
well either you tell your girlfriend you like him, and she'll lay off, but how do you know she doesn't like him too?
and why like someone that isn't going to return the same feelings? it makes no sense darling. find a guy who deserves you and will like you back. ]
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