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15/f. in may 2006, i started talking to this alot. we even started saying we loved each other, like REALLY, not just as friends. so now, we are going out and we still say we love each other, but it doesn't really seem like it means anything. he's not the mushy-gushy-lovey kind of person, so how can i let him know that i really DO love him?
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Ah. I had the same problem with my boyfriend for a while. Tell him that it means more when it's said less often. Trust me-- if he understands, then that should help. If it doesn't, take it into your own hands. If you don't see each other for a few days, snuggle with him [or something else just as adorable] and whisper it in his ear. It works. :]
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Hi,
i think that theres really nothing to do to tell him that you really DO love him. i mean he should already kno just by sayin it. But sayin you love him while your kissing and hugging is a good way to show that you really love him. I always give hugs and say i love my bf and kiss him and he knows that i love him. So just do things like that to show that you care and love him alot. :]
Ok i hope i helped?!?>
~katelyn~
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The key here is to SHOW him rather than TELL. It's the best way to get the message across. Bring him some home-made cookies or brownies during school or something. It's assumed that girls love to get the extra attention of warm hugs and flowers every once in a while. The same applies for guys too. Skip the flowers and show him that you care by spending time and effort. Anybody can say the words, it takes real integrity to DO.
Another great way is to tell him exactly what you like about him. If he's not too used to receiving compliments, something small can go a long way. Say you like the way his pants hang or how the jacket he's wearing makes him look good.
It's the little things that count.
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Shout it at the top of your lungs in a grocery store.
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