ok there is this kid, lets call him josh for example. Well josh definitly likes me and there is no doubt about that and well i cant decide if i like him or not. he's a great friend and he listens to me and he cares about me and he doesn't think im pathetic when i cry and get depressed. He's a really nice guy but i can't see myself being intimate with him. He's not very attractive and sometimes he can be really dorky and he is also obsessed with the army which i am not so i don't know what to do. He has really small lips and they are sort of curved inward so i can imagine kissing him. Any advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated.
happybabe2 answered Thursday March 29 2007, 8:30 pm: if i were you i wouldnt go out with someone unless i was at keast 95% sure that i liked him so if i were you i think friends would be best [ happybabe2's advice column | Ask happybabe2 A Question ]
iloveaar answered Thursday March 29 2007, 7:52 pm: i don't think you like him as much as he likes you...my advice to you is to stop worrying cause you don't like him , you don't have to like him and by the way you describe it it seems you don't like him more than as a friend, also . when you really get to like him you would be able to imagine kissing him , beeing with him , you'll stop worrying about him being do dorky , not attractive etc. cause when you really like someone its not like your going to start doubting about those things . bellieveme when you geet to like someone because of their attitude , the way they treat you etc. you start to see this person like other one ..i mean ..you stop thinking about if he's ugly or anything cause to you he would not be ugly when you like him . it seems like your just kinda best friends or something that's why you might be confuse , but when the moment comes you'll really feel it believe me :) hope i helped [ iloveaar's advice column | Ask iloveaar A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Thursday March 29 2007, 7:49 pm: hey, well alls you seem to be doing is finding fault with him. if you really liked him, you would be preaching to us all the goods thing about him and why you think you might like him. i would just stay friends with him, maybe best friends. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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