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how can i get my bf to make the first move
14/f ok so my bf like won't make a flippin move!! its been a month and a half and he hasnt even kissed me yet. and im not that into making the first move and we have talked about him making a move cause im alot shyer then him ...im like pretty much known as the shy girl unless your my close friend then i never shutup and im that way with him so yea. but anyways do you have any other casual ideas of trying to get him to make a move cause i have tried everything.. ive talked to him about it, i had his friend talk to him about it and i have no idea what else i should try please help!!
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i had this problem. i don't think i would have ever gotten a kiss from my boyfriend if i didn't kiss him first. we were in a room, alone from everyone else and he was about to leave the room and i said "hey get over here" and i kissed him. the end. sometimes you just have to do things yourself and this was one of them. it may not be your thing to make the first move, it wasn't for me either but i just did it.
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move in for a kiss... but don't kiss him! it leaves poeple wanting more when you do this, so if you do it then he should think about kissing you more and more untill he finally does
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You have tried everything, except not-trying. He probably wants to be the one to make the first move in his time, but now feels pressured. Never have someone else get involved in your personal relationship again when it comes to telling your boyfriend when to make a move or other personal things. Guys do not want to be told what to do in any way shape or form. Get it now? Now, to undo some of the damage. You need to give him time and space to re-establish his manly ego. Guys are very sensitive and get bruised feelings that they do not dare show. Don't talk about making moves with him or your friends again. He will know. Even better, you need to forget about it. Like waiting for water to boil, as soon as you stop hanging around staring at the kettle and look away is when the action starts. Enjoy the non-physical aspects of the relationship now and let the rest come naturally, and never try to fast-forward a relationship before you are both ready, again.
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you're seriously my TWIN!! i was in the EXACT same situation. he's probably more shyer than you are and that's a sign that he really likes you. so my bf was really shy and wouldn't make the first move with me either. i'm sure you two haven't held each others hands either? well if you haven't i suggest YOU make the first move. like when you're walking with him walk really close to each other then tell him, "give me your hand, why are you so shy?" in a really flirty jokey way you know like you're playing around and then grab his hand. that's what i did and it worked for me. hope i helped! message me if you need more help.
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