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Heart broken
Please someone help me.. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and 14 days today.. We have been doing really good lately.. But she is one of those girls who wants to talk to me CONSTANTLY and believe me i like it.. But sometimes it can be to much.. She gets mad at me when i want to go anywhere with my friends.. But the other day i told her she was to attached.. And i didnt mean it i was just mad because of how she kept getting mad.. But now i feel horrible because i have hurt her in the past.. And i love her more than anything in this world and i hate myself for hurting her.. Can someone please tell me how to appoligize to her and make it better. But dont say to tell her that i said it out of anger or to just appoligize because i have already tried it.. We used to fight alot because of how she would get mad.. But that is over with now.. And now she is scared to talk to me alot because she dont want to fight with me anymore.. And told her thats not the way to do it.. I know she loves me i can just tell she does. .But i dont know how to make things like they used to be.. Someone please help me..
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well the first thing you should do in a case like this is tell her you love her and always will and you dont want her to leave you and you never will leave her because shes afraid right now and i can tell shes just thinking on how to make the relationship better so you tell her you love her for always being there for you but you dont need her to be there for you every second because she runs through your mind all day. [gurls love how and when a boy says they misses them] and whatever you decide to do remember to remind her you love her
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well, i dont know because it depends on what kind of girl she is.If shes as great as you make her sound, Just apologize, and talk about it.Just be like ok, when i said you were too "Attached" i was angry.Then be like i love you and being with you, but on occasions, i need to hang with my friends, and you can chill with yours.If she does not like that then I dont know, but if it came down to it you all, and some friends could go out on group dates more often!!That might be fun and satisfying for the both of yall!!
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ok....i went though the same thing...you have to just sit her down and talk to her...tell her how you feel and how you want to be with her and that you love her.don't be sorry because u told her she was to attached...because you both need your own personal space to hangout and stuff...just tell her how u want to be with her but you need your space...and if she loves you she will understand...
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Aww you sound like a super sweet guy.
Well, being a girl and everything if that happened between my bf and me I would want him to talk to me. But I guess she doesn't so have you thought about writing a letter to her? Just write down all you wanna tell her and give it to her. It's worth it. I mean, what do you have to lose.
Good Luck. I hope everthing works out good for you. You sound like you to sweet of a guy for it not too. Hope I helped.
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Obviously there are problems. She gets mad when you wanna do things that don't involve her. Like hanging with the guys. That can be a control issue, or just jealousy. Either way, it needs to be worked out. Try & create a balance with friends/girlfriend. Because if you hang out with your girlfriend more than your friends, your friends will start to go away one by one. And if you hang out with your friends more, she'll complain you're not spending enough time with her.
Just try not to fight with her & talk things out calmly so it doesn't end up in conflict. And apologize as best you can. Just tell her you need time with your friends too. Your life doesn't revolve around her as much as she likes to think so. But don't tell her that or she'll really be pissed.
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