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Why do people start rumors?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 5:34 pm



I mean really? Lately, and before people have started stuff saying my boy friend was cheating, or doing something wrong, when he's not the type..and I'm tired of it.

I want it to stop, because it's making me so paranoid ..and I already worry so much.. I love my boy friend and we've been dating a year and 4 months I'm not ready to let go..

How do you deal with this?

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My best friend is moving, can you help me say goodbye?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 5:22 pm

can you help me write a letter to my bestfriend which is leaving today ?

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Am I a slut. Still facing this?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 4:45 pm



Basically my question is, what would you classify me as?

I was a good girl growing up. Like no intercourse or anything. I was locked down in the house getting grades. Then I hit college or in other words freedom. Boys and liquor got introduced. I started to become sexual as in giving and receiving oral. I believe I am sexual to a point, but I am 19 and still a virgin. Yes I said it, 19 and still a virgin. 20 in 17 days! lol I have done many sexual things I am not proud of. Like giving oral to a guys friend 2 months after talking to that guy. I feel like some people would classify me as a slut because of the number of guys I gave oral to. But I am much more than that. I am very loving and caring! But all people...

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Could I have been a victim of sexual abuse?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 1:34 pm

I am a 33 year old woman who is confused, I have four older siblings who were sexually abused by our grandfather, the closest sibling is six years older than me and when I was six my grandfather died of bowel cancer, he did not have a very prolonged illness maybe 2 years. I am worried that I may have been abused by him as well because of the following:-
1. I distrust men, including family members.
2. I find incest storylines erotic.
3. I have extreme problems with intimacy - hence why I am a 33 year old virgin.
4. I have suffered depression and suicidal attempts from the age of about 7 and as far as I know I had no reason to be unhappy, I was well loved, well fed and housed.

Because I would ha...

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Crush doesn't know if we should be friends


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 12:08 pm

what do i do if my crush doesnt know if we should be friends

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9 month surprise for boyfriend


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 11:54 am

What do i get my boyfriend for a 9 month aniversory?

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what does this mean?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 11:43 am

When a guy asks you to drip him off, what does that mean?

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tampons always hurt


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 11:24 am

ok i have tried everything.. i cannot get tampons to fit comfortably. ive tried angling it differently but it still is super uncomfortable, painful sometimes.
what am i doing wrong? i read the instructions and used google but nothing is helping me. please help. pads gross me out.

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lose a huge tummy!


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 9:02 am

OK i have a huge stomach ,I hate it .My mom says if you stand up straight and look down and you dont see your toes you are to big.I have dun it and i see my toes most of my foot.
When my dad was working before he retired he was a health inspector so he used to bring home losts of fruits and vegetables.
I lost loads of weight from not eating junk fod but just the fruits and vegetables.Now that there is no more i just started eatting JUnk food (chocolates and loads of food)and my tummy is gettingbig again:(How do i get rid of it (Im 13/f)

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Losing Weight


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 8:56 am

So i have lost alot of weight ,and suddenly my legs and hands are getting stretch marks and on my hiips.
I use CoCoa butter with a special cream (whitfield's cream)And the stretch marks on my hips are fading but not on my legs and hands and it makes me feel reallly uncomfortable.
I never had stretch marks on my hand or legs until i started losing weight :\
Also on my thighs :(
UGH
is there anyway to get rid of these or is it because my legs have to be shaped up because i lost weight,Is there a home remedy/Way to do that?:(

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How do I safely get rid of a voodoo doll?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 6:05 am

A friend recently bought me a voodoo doll from New Orleans. I live in New Zealand. How do I safely get rid of it? I don't want to throw it in the bin incase something bad happens. I was thinking of just putting it in the post and sending it somewhere but I am scared of something happening too. What should I do? Please help.

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GAY penis piercings


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 4:49 am

Are men gay when they pierce their penis in weard places?

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Bloody poop and periods


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 2:27 am

if there is blood in my poop, could that be a sign of me getting my period?

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how to approach her?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 2:15 am

so im a 16 M. This is wassup. So there is this girl that rides my bus. Im pretty know she likes me because the first time she rode the bus she kept looking back at me. That same day even a friend i was talking to said she liked me cause of how much she was turning back. I think shes cute and would like to get to know he. The problem is i dont know how to approach. I also always get nervous and back out of these situatioms. I know i have alot of insecurities. Any suggestions on an approach. I also havent had the balls to cause i always feel all the girls i talk to are too good for me. I dont think im ugly or anything but im still insecure about myself.also would i seem like a creeper if i just asked her to just sit next to me. That also make...

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Should I change jobs or try to work it out?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 12:32 am

I starting working in a legal firm as an Executive Secretary to a Partner for nine months. On the outset, it was exciting as I am working in a new environment.

As months passed, work scope changes and it is not the same as what I was being told during the interview. Work scope increased and so are responsibilities. I started to think and asked myself if I should look for another job.

In addition, my boss sucks. He is a petty, cautious and with a suspicious mind. Throughout my working experience, I have only met lady bosses who are petty but not man. As such, my work gets tougher.

How do I approach my boss to speak to him about my work scope, without making matters worst?

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Walmart Moneygram


Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 11:53 pm

Can you pick up a Walmart money gram at any location?

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How can I break free of traditions that my family are holding me to?


Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 11:36 pm

How can I break free of traditions that my family are holding me to? They will not allow me to get married!?
I am 20 years old and was raised in the U.S, as is my wonderful boyfriend of two years. While my family is of middle-eastern decent, my boyfriend is not. I was always expected to be in an arranged marriage to a middle eastern man of my parents' choosing, however my boyfriend (who is of the same religion as me and very respectable) changed those plans. I have never wanted an arranged marriage, but to be married to someone who truly makes me happy, and he is exactly that. The problem is that we have been in a long-distance relationship for two years now, (we live in bordering states) and it is getting to be very difficult on the...

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Does He like me/Is he playing ?


Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 10:10 pm



Question Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 8:37 pm

Ok.13/f
I have a bf and i loved him so much.I still love him but i dont know if he still likes me.
I get signs sometimes that he doesnt like me.

Most Times:
He always hold my hand.
Want to go out with me.
Wants to kiss mi.
Wants to share food with me.
Invites mi to come by his house with him and his parents.
Always watching me(Sometimes i might be on my black berry and he just stares at me and when I look up he looks away).

Sometimes:
He teases me (Like if i wear something he doesnt like ,Its ugly)
Talks about hot girls around me,BUT Only when his friends ...

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I want him to need me


Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 9:24 pm

Ok befor I begin I want u to know that I'm not selfish just a little needy! I have been in a serious relationship for some time now, I love him but I sometimes feel like I want more from him. I want him to want me to be there for special occasions and important times in his life, and although I know he'd like me to be there if I say I'll think about it he says it's ok don't worry about it. I want him to show me he wants me to be there or needs me. He's still a little bit of a mommas boy and I know it's his mom but I think it's time for him to grow up and need her less! Makes me feel like sometimes I need go compete with her. Buy the better clothes or choose the better movies! Now I might sound super attached but I love this guy and I want o...

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puppy help...


Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 8:44 pm

I just got a new Boxer puppy. Shes 3 and a half months old, and she used to live with her two parents and 5 other dogs which she got to play with everyday. So I know it's hard for her to not always have someone to play with. Today, (Sunday) I spent the day with her and she was mostly outside with me or sleeping on my lap inside. The only issue is that my mom doesn't want her walking around inside the house (but when she's not home, I let her) because she can't deal with the puppy peeing and pooping all over. So, sometimes, we put her crate in the garage which is heated (we don't keep cars in there.)She also sleeps in there at night. I put her in there and tied her leash to her cage so she could move around a few feet surrounding her cage. I...

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