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how to approach her?
so im a 16 M. This is wassup. So there is this girl that rides my bus. Im pretty know she likes me because the first time she rode the bus she kept looking back at me. That same day even a friend i was talking to said she liked me cause of how much she was turning back. I think shes cute and would like to get to know he. The problem is i dont know how to approach. I also always get nervous and back out of these situatioms. I know i have alot of insecurities. Any suggestions on an approach. I also havent had the balls to cause i always feel all the girls i talk to are too good for me. I dont think im ugly or anything but im still insecure about myself.also would i seem like a creeper if i just asked her to just sit next to me. That also makes me nervous cause i dont want to seem like a creeper
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Well you should do something simple like maybe try to sit by her or something and if she like pulls out her phone or something then you can say ohh thats a cool phone (I know it sounds REALLY corny...) and just like start a convo or even just a few words because after that is will be wayyyyy esier to talk to her(:
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I would start with something as simple as a "hi" in the hallway or when you pass her getting on the bus. If she likes you as much as it seems, I'm sure she will definately agree to sitting next to you. She may come off as a bit shy at first too, for ShE hasn't been able to make a move yet (just the 'looking back'). Do not be turned away by her shyness, keep trying! Start small by saying something when you see her, then just go sit in your spot. Knowing girls, she might say "He just talked to me!" very excitingly to her friends haha. After you are able to say "hi", ask her to sit next to you (which is NOT being a creeper). She will gain more courage to approach you later on (so you don't have to) if you do this.
If by chance she approaches you or you approach her, don't forget to breathe! Try to keep a conversation going by talking about your interests, something you have in common, complimenting what she is wearing, or by just smiling. If you show her you are open to hanging out with her, I'm sure she would be happy to. We are all human. She is not any better than you; give her that chance. It is obvious she already likes you! Yes, we all get nervous, but think: if you put your best effort in the first round, the second time will be that much easier :)
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I scored a lot of ass in HS, so I have some experience. Be forward. And lose the fear of bieng shut down. The more you try, the more you succeed, the more you try and fail, the more respect you will get from your likewise shy friends. Trying 20 times and scoring twice is better than trying twice and burning both times, make sense? Plus, say she shuts you down, all her friends will know you are looking just from the gossip and maybe some ass comes your way you weren't even thinking about.
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