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My question is about a lad that you shouldn't be in love wit
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 8:03 am
i am from England. I love a lad that I met on a chat room and he doesn't love me back he lives in another country and he hasn't emailed me for almost two months. I do love him though what shall i do?
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Ok I need help wit dis one
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 8:00 am
Ok there is this boy that I really dont like,but im goin out wit him. hes very wird but is popular and if i break up wit him alot of people wont like me. I really still like my ex boyfriend though. He is my childhood sweet heart. shoul I go out wit da popular boy or with the boy ive loved since third grade?
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talking it out
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 3:25 am
ok so what are some ways for me to open up to my boyfriend more. im not really shy but it comes of that way to him and i want to prove to him that im not like that. we kind of got into a fight about it. we then talked it out and hes like well lets talk about this in person. im like ok. its his first relationshipa and its my first relationship where the guy isnt an asshole. im just looking for ways to talk to him without putting him on his defense
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Preferrably guys answer. But girls too, who have been in thi
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 12:39 am
Okay... this is going to be long but I REALLY need help. So thanks to anyone who takes this seriously and actually reads it and TRIES to help me.
So there's this boy.
He is SO cute.
He has brown hair, bright blue eyes, muscles... just, the whole enchilada.
Anndd... I have liked him for SOO long.
Since the beginning of this year.
And like, he used to like me but whatever.
Andd... on Valentines day of THIS year, it was 6th period on a Wednesday and I asked the teacher if I could go to the bathroom and so I went and his class is right next to mine. So as I walking back to class, I see AJ [the guy] walking towards me and my heart skips a beat. He is just, TOO cute. And we stopped by the locker...
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sex
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 12:08 am
me and my b/f are 15/16 and we are totally commited to each other and we want to have sex but we are scared because we don't know how
So my 1st question is
1.) How do you know when your ready?
2.)How do you give a guy a blowjob that makes him wanna scream?
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"I Love You"
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 10:47 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and I'm a big believer of not telling someone I love them until I really get that gut feeling. (I find it means so much more.)
He, to the contrary, has dated girls that are the exact opposite and say 'i love you' from day one; he was accustomed to saying it to me before I could tell him the same.
So 5 months have passed, and I really felt ready to tell him I loved him.. and I did. He was so happy, and I think he realized how much more it meant to him because I waited.
Here's the problem: now he never says it to me. I almost feel like he's scared to say those three words now that he knows I really mean it. Is this why he is hesitating all of a sudden? W...
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does he like me or no?
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 10:05 pm
Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past m...
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excessive fighting
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 8:33 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. I'm f/15 and he's m/16. Everyday, we're in an argument about something really stupid. I know fighting is normal, but it's started to become stressful. He's constantly saying that I like other guys (as a joke) but he does it everyday and it annoys me. He does not want to talk about past fights we've had, or anything that could start an argument. That's understandable, but I literally mean anything in the past. If something bothered me yesterday and I tell him today, he doesn't want to talk about it. I admit, I do start many of our arguments. Usually it's because I'll tell a white lie every once in awhile and sometimes I talk over him. We've tried making promises to each other to stop ...
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please help me.. i dont know what to do :'(
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 8:06 pm
ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!!
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boys duhh =] haha
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 7:04 pm
ok so heres the thing. i know when i like a guy. but recently i havnt liked a guy for like 3 months. but many i have thought liked me. and when i think people like me i like them. but i never say anything because im never sure if i ever do. because i thought my best friend liked me so i s tarted liking him but then someother guy like a week later i thought liked me so i s tarted liking him and the same right now i think a guy likes me so i like him. but im nto really sure if i like the guy. and its really annoying me. i mean i might actually like them but im not 100 percent sure.and this is the first time that its been like that. and then also now if a friend thinks i like someone i start liking that person. like its really annoying. and ih...
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I want him back (I need Male's help!)
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:48 pm
My boyfriend (now ex) broke up with me on April 22nd. He told me he plans on getting back with me he just needs a break. He is really stressed because of home and school and he felt like he couldn't be a good boyfriend. But instead of working on our relationship, he lets his stress out by partying. We currently aren't talking but we occasionally have a conversation. He doesn't talk to me because I irritate him (along with a lot of his friends right now so it's not just me) and he doesn't want to be a dick and mess things up. How do I get him back, with out irritating him?
Please don't tell me to forget about him because that is not what I need to hear.
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phone conversation with him
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:44 pm
i have silences while on the phone with *him*. what are some random things to talk about. anything really. i want the conversation to spark up another conversation. please give me multitple ideas. thanks!<3
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i dont know what to do
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:37 pm
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ok so me and this guy have been going out for a month everything is wonderful between us but im not sure if i should continue it. because right now hes going to a community college and so am i for our associates then hes going to go to another college in like a year or two. im just curious if its worth me getting into a serious relationship or not. i really like the guy and this is the only thing that ive been wondering about. any advice would be of help:)
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how do you know if you really like him???
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 6:34 pm
hii :]
okay i've got a question
see i used to like this guy who was one of my best friends. everytime i saw him i would get soo freaking happy and i wouldnt stop smiling. i was always excited to see him or hang out with him. well he didnt like me. this storys not about him but its needed to be told. you'll understand in a minute.
well theres this guy who likes me. i thought i liked him but i'm not sure. when i see him, i'm just like ..hi.. like theres not the major excitement i used to get when i saw my old crush. plus i'm noticing things about him that i dont like so much, the more i know him. i'm not sure if i actually like him or just like the fact that he likes me, because i'm not exactly gorgeous.
what do you think?
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Why am I not getting over this jerk?!!!
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 5:21 pm
So after 3 1/2 years its over. He broke up with me once. That lasted 1 month. Well, we got back together again just before his birthday in OCT. (Please note he gets extremely depressed around the holidays and his birthday.)During our back together time he was mean, and conveniently unavailable on the weekends all the time.
Well, in January (10th sh) is broke up with me again. It was over the phone and hung up on me when I started to cry. I emailed him a week later and asked for a 500 guitar back that I gave him for x-mas b/c quite frankly, I felt used (as always,) by him. His answer? He had his sister email me at work telling me never to contact him again.
Its been over 4 months with no calls emails or apolog...
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birthday boy.
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 4:56 pm
well, it's sort of in the friendship/love life section. i wasn't too sure which one to stick it in.
it's my crush's birthday soon and i was wondering what i should get him. anybody got any ideas? i want to get him something nice, but you know, i only got so much money. probably like 20 dollars or so, i can proably even go 30. i mean i thought of the usual cologne idea but he already has enough cologne and i've asked him countless times what he wants me to get him, and he just answers,"whatever you get me will be fine." that didn't help at all.
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so if anybody has any ideas for me, id' really appreciate it!
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helpp!
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 4:45 pm
i really like this guy. so lately i've been making more eye contact, and it TOTALLY seems like he's talking to me more! like we've never really talked before, but then one day i was like, "screw this i gotta talk to him" so i just like asked stupid things like can i borrow your pencil or do we have any homework? & it seems like now he's talking to me more. he seems to be making more eye contact. i think he knows that i like him cause like today, i was talking to my teacher about something, and a few other kids were lining up to talk to her and i was just glancing over each of their faces and i stopped at him and like made eye contact and then i quickly turned away. was that a flirt do-do or no-no?! cause i didnt wanna see...
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omg chickan fanga
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 4:31 pm
My friend...cassandra is with my ex bf tyler. He told me she had a dream that me and him were making out in the hall way and she came in and i said ....its not what it looks like...shes moving june1....does this mean anything?
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i feel really down and alone
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 2:43 pm
my boyfriend and i have been getting on really well.he was always telling me how sexy i am and stuff like that and i was saying it back to him because he is and its the truth.this week its like everything has gone done hill.i ring him and try to make conversation with him but he doesnt and it makes me feel really awkward then.he asks me personal stuff through text message but then when were talking he doesnt ask me anything.i know he might be just shy but he has asked me other stuff through text and to me if i was shy i wouldnt be asking stuff like that.i ask him how he is and gives me a one word anwser to everything.then i get nervous.i really really like but i dont know whats wrong.when he acts that way it makes me feel really down and al...
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baby or not? ..not
Posted Wednesday May 9 2007, 2:22 pm
Hi,
I`m almost 18 years old.. and recently found out that i`m pregnant. I couldn't be more than a month.. Birth control obviously isn`t a hundred percent.. well, i've done way too much to stress out my family and i have way too much planned for me to have a baby right now.
I can`t let my mother know what's happenening.. and my father has always been out of the picture.
My boyfriend is almost 20; he's ready for this, i definately am not. He doesn't really respect my decision.. but i`m going to do what i need to do..
does anyone know what alternative i have since i`m not 18 and can't go and get an abortion on my own? is there anything else..
Please help.. as soon as you can..
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