ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!!
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 3:53 am: the same things happend to me before, and i know how hard it is, and how much you want to be with someone. One of the hardest things is to accept the fact that hes gone. I made the mistake in begging him to get with me..i even told him things i would do, that my true self would never do.. turns out he wasnt worth it. and honestly no guy really is these days. Its so hard to get back on your feet after 3 years. its like where do i start? Your better off, letting him know you'll always care, but seriously girl you'll push him away if you beg him to come back. Stay strong, be his friend and get yourself together. Go out with your friends, date other guys...its gunna eat you away if you let it keep getting to you.
i really hope things get better for you hun. just remember theres plenty of fish in the sea (:
iwantthetruth answered Thursday May 10 2007, 1:08 am: you know just reading your story is making me tear up too. im sorry you have to go through this but if he doesnt want to be with you theres not much you can do about it. finding love is like standing up. it takes a while to get up. and you have to keep falling down before you get there. and once you do its hard to stay up. but everytime you fall it hurts less and you learn from it. and you become stronger and wiser each time. in the end you'll be walking with no problem and sure you may stumble every once in a while but you'll be too strong to ever fall down all the way again. and that kind of inner strength is what makes us overcome anything. you can and will get through this with time. im going through a very similar thing too right now. but it will be okay. im here for you anything you need ok? write me back if you need anything. hope all goes well.
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