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excessive fighting
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. I'm f/15 and he's m/16. Everyday, we're in an argument about something really stupid. I know fighting is normal, but it's started to become stressful. He's constantly saying that I like other guys (as a joke) but he does it everyday and it annoys me. He does not want to talk about past fights we've had, or anything that could start an argument. That's understandable, but I literally mean anything in the past. If something bothered me yesterday and I tell him today, he doesn't want to talk about it. I admit, I do start many of our arguments. Usually it's because I'll tell a white lie every once in awhile and sometimes I talk over him. We've tried making promises to each other to stop both of our bad habits, but it doesn't seem to be working. I don't want to end this relationship because I really do love him. But these fights are causing both of us pain and we don't know how to fix it. Going on a break would just make us both upset, (We've already talked about it) but neither of us knows how to get back to the way we were when we first starting going out. Help please, :/
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neither of you want to go on a break, or much less even end the relationship all together.. so that should be enough insentive to stop fighting that way you dont result into that. dont bring up the past just drop it all together and start over as if it were day one. ORRR try talking every other day, or seeing eachother everyday.. maybe you spend too much time together causing the little bickering.
good luckkk (:
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