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I don't even know.


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 4:51 pm

This guy and I like each other, and I guess you could say we've passed first base. But the trouble is he doesn't want the people we hang out with to know because of this different story.. so anyways, we would always hang out but then this huge rumor came out and it was bad so after it was settled he said we should take it slow. and then we kind of just stopped talking. So I kinda started feeling like he didn't like me anymore. and then one day he said ..are we not talking or something? and I told him that I thought he didn't like me and he was like no I do like you why would you think that?! and I was like oh okayy..sorry..and that was the only time I talked to him that day. and then the next day we texted at night for like an hour. then th...

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I don't know who I like


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 4:38 pm

OK, I like to of my friends. They are both really nice and sweet, and I am going out with one of them. He is so nice and sweet, and I really love him. But I think I also love my other friend. I can't stop thinking about either of them. I don't know if I should take a brake from going out with the first one or not. I mean, if I had to loose either my life or he lose his, I would rather lose mine. But I also feel this way about the other guy. I don't know, I am just so confused. I love them both, and I know the guy I go out with loves me, but I don't know about the other one. I mean, and this is hard for me to say even though I know it is anonymous, but I am going to try to say it to its full (this might end up getting kind of long). OK, they...

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Was I being tested?


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 4:26 pm

Ok this girl that I like was on msn. I said hi and whats up and she says nothing fighting with scoot the guy she is dating i asked why she said hes being a dick cause I have guy freinds, I gave her advice and told her to tell the guy to back off and that she was no ones bitch then i asked if she was going to dump him or tell him she needed a break she said she was but he got offline to fast and that she had to go and got offline emdeatly. was i being tested? did I pass? what just went on?


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A boy, of course.


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 4:20 pm

Hey I'm a sixteen year old girl. Okay.. This guy and I have been talking, you know, that whole deal. I really like him a lot but I go through these "phases", I suppose you could call them, where I'm just very disinterested. The thought of someone being crazy about me and being committed to them just makes me sick to my stomach. At other times, though, I realize it's kinda nice to have someone who cares about me.

I'm not exactly the popular type in school and I haven't had a boyfriend in pretty much a year and a half. Am I just not used to this feeling or am I completely out of my mind? Advice of any kind would be greatly appreciated.

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should i or no


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 4:10 pm

hi im a 16/m and im starting to fall for this freshman girl..shes on my bus and i staretd iming hr last week.we have never talked in person and i want to so bad but i cant bring myself to say hey i feel like im gunna say something stupid i dont know why but i do...so ive imed her alot lately everyday pretty much...so should i continue to i/m her or no talk to her in person then continue...i also have her cell number she gave it to me for when we can hang out...so please help thanks in advance

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what should i do?


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 3:49 pm

14/f
well my bf "antwan" and i have been dating for almost a month.well im leaving for bootcamp in the next 6 days. we want to be together and i trust him. BUT it will be about 6 weeks before i EVEN talk to him again, and maybe about 10 MONTHS before i SEE him. he wants to stay together and so do i BUT i dont want to hold him back from other things. what should i do???

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i dont know what to do...


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 3:33 pm

hi im a 16 year old soph guy and i like this freshman girl,...shes been on my bus all year but i never really talked to her..i somehow got her screen name on aim the other week and started iming her she seems pretty cool..i dont know her that well but im starting to...i want to hang out with her sometime so i got her cell number and gave her mine...but now i want to go say hey on the bus but for some reason i cant pull myself to.. if i knew where her locker is i would go talk to her at her locker but i dont and none of my friends kno where it is...ive been imin her everyday but i dont want to seem annoying her and i dont wanna text her or call her and do both so i dont know i imed her today after school and she never answered me then went a...

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i want her that badly


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 3:14 pm

she went out with a guy, broke up with him. started to hook up with me, then inbetween seeing eachother, she starts dating this new guy. so she's not single anymore, but i know she ahs feelings for me, and I want it to be like it was when she was'nt with either guy, and thinking about me :( how can i get her to break up with this new guy and go with me, am i wrong for wanting her to cheat on him for me, i care about her so i would never ask her to do anything while she is seeing guy 2. but damn, i want her to so badly

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wedding now or wait??


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 2:53 pm

my name is Kristin and I'm 19 I am engaged to be married to a wonderful guy. I love him dearly and would do anything for him. The only problem is that he wants us to go to the JOP and sign the license so we can get BAH from the Army right away and have the ceremony part later on. I'm ok with that and told him we could have the ceremony in September. He doesn't want us to have the ceremony until almost a year after we've been married because money is a little tight. I don't think theres any point to the ceremony a year after were already married. I want to marry him but I want the perfect wedding and I have spent alot of time planning but he thinks we should wait. I don't know if we should bother having a ceremony a year later or just have i...

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im bi and dating my best friend but i dont like her!!!!


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 10:02 am

ok so im dating my best friend she asked me out yesterday and ok well its nothing serious and its not public. im middle school most people are not ok with gay people yet so yea. the thing is i only said yes to her because well every guy shes ever liked has rejected her and i kinda felt bad. i dunno if she really likes me. she said she doesnt and that she just wants to make sure she is bi by dating a girl. okay but ive never had a girlfriend or boyfriend before and this is all new to me. somehow it doesnt feel right and i dont wanna end up hurting her. its the last thing i wanna do. maybe she does like me but is just covering it up so i dont wanna break up with her. ugh and well i just got over a guy friend - my other best friend- and he and...

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Saying goodbye for two months.


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 6:40 am

I'm in love with my boyfriend(15) who I leaving for a month and a half long trip to Europe soon. We've been dating for nearly eight months and its getting harder and harder to think about saying goodbye. I was wondering if there's anything special I can do for him. (I'm planning on making him a little journal thing with letters from me and pictures of us) Also, what should I do for the month he's gone, of course I'm going to catch up with old friends, but it'll be summer and I'm used to spending every day with him. I'm sure this is going to be hard, how should I handle this?

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why can't i just have two lovers.


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 2:28 am

for the past 5 onths i've been dating his great guy named kyle. He gives me everything a girl would want, great gifts, many compliments, my family loves him, he drives me every where, takes me out to nice places, like everything.

but last summer before i even met kyle i really like another guy named chris, one night chris and i ended up ahveing sex and since then i've always had a little thing for him. chris and i stopped talking for a few months then before i was dating kyle he just started talking to me again. i was thrilled.

but anyways after kyle and i had been dating for 3 months i ended up cheating on him by kissing chris. he eventaully found out and was furious. i told him i was sorry and had no feeling...

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my boyfriend


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 2:05 am

okay i can help people with there problems but i cant solve my own....i am 16 years old female and i have an 18 year old boyfriend...the other day he broke up with me and said i was talking to guys on the internet...then a few hours later after i said i wasnt he comes back to my house and says okay i believe you...should i take him back or what???
signed
confusedmyself

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I'm 17 and dating a 15 year old.


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 1:48 am

So, I'm 17/m and my gf is 15. I live in Canada and just wanted to know what the legal age limit is for dating, sexually and non-sexually. We've been together for a year now and I'm just curious.

Thanks to everyone. o^-^o

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just friends? love? help please.


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 11:59 pm

alright, well i dated this guy, Jack, for over a year and a half, and well i broke it off b/c we were young in highschool and i wanted a chance to see that this is what we both really wanted before we got very serious. So we both dated other people, well throughout this whole time, i always had my best friend, Nathan. This year, Nathan spilled to me that he has had feelings for me for the past two years, and well it became rocky for our friendship. But i was hesistant on even starting anything with him, but i did. We were doing very good until i started pushing him away b/c i started liking him a lot. Well Jack became single again [ he dumped his girlfriend, b/c he had feelings for me, and couldn't change that] so here i am torn between the...

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im a flirt


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 11:44 pm

13/f
Ok, so everyone in my school calls me a slut and all the guys call me a flirt. i have seriously done nothing to deserve the label of "slut." And i flirt with everyone. Like this one guy in p.e i flirt with him and one day he started to like me... And EVERYONE tells me this. and i REALLY REALLY dont want a boyfriend. i guess im sort of a girl playerr. haha wow. But i really dont want to hurt his feelings. And he always calls me but its so awkward on the phone with him that i ignore his calls and tell him i lost my phone. (which i do lose my phone alot). everyone tells me hes going to ask me out soon!! and my friends are like i will hate you if you dont go out with him... because his bestfriend is who my friend likes. an...

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Situation


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 10:53 pm

Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little more than 7 months. During about the first 5 months, it was all about me, even though we got into fights once in awhile, but got over them very fast. Then next 2 months have been hell. We used to hangout everyday but now he said he wants to hangout with his bestfriend, which happens to be a girl, at least once every week so we have to take a day off just for that. We used to hangout everyday and if we didn't, he'd get really upset and miss me a real lot. I really do think he has a crush on this girl, even though she has been dating his best friend for over a year now. He is always so excited to hangout with her and ditched me quite a few times to be with her. They have also done sleep...

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cheating


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 10:35 pm

i was looking through my boyfriends calls online and he keeps saying hes not talking to this girl and the girl has the same story I SEE THE CALL IN his call log though hes so stupid why dont guys just admit to you there cheating?

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Im scared!!


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 9:41 pm

Okay so i have a boyfriend and he is so sweet and i love him to death like litterally!! But the problem is we are going to different school's and so today i was right behind him and he didn't know and one of my friends went up to him and said "are you and sasha gunna brake up?" and sasha is me and my boyfriend said yes he was gunna dump me in like 2 weeks because of the school thing can anyone help me on what to do in this sichoation ???
Love,
scared and he dont know it

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i wanna talk to him!


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 9:41 pm

Theres this really cute boy a year below me in my school. idk much about him, just that he plays the trombone and sometimes i see him but idk his name or anything. Like, how do i just get him to talk or notice me?

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