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what should i do?
14/f
well my bf "antwan" and i have been dating for almost a month.well im leaving for bootcamp in the next 6 days. we want to be together and i trust him. BUT it will be about 6 weeks before i EVEN talk to him again, and maybe about 10 MONTHS before i SEE him. he wants to stay together and so do i BUT i dont want to hold him back from other things. what should i do???
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Tell him exactly that before you go.
Whether you both promise it or not-- natural events and courses of nature will occur... he could meet someone else and instinctively break his promise to wait for you, or, he could wait.
But at 14-- expect it to be over sweetie.
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If you don't wanna hold him back, it's best you break up until you get back. You're not going to be able to see each other for almost a year, and you're not gonna talk to each other for 6 weeks. How in the hell is that gonna work out? It probably isn't. It might hurt to break up, but it's best for both of you.
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Well if you love him and trust him you wont want to just let him go will you?
So make the most of your time away, write him letters maybe, send him messages?
When you come back, the relationship will be really special :D
<3RM XxX
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