she went out with a guy, broke up with him. started to hook up with me, then inbetween seeing eachother, she starts dating this new guy. so she's not single anymore, but i know she ahs feelings for me, and I want it to be like it was when she was'nt with either guy, and thinking about me :( how can i get her to break up with this new guy and go with me, am i wrong for wanting her to cheat on him for me, i care about her so i would never ask her to do anything while she is seeing guy 2. but damn, i want her to so badly
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MizzDiva3203 answered Thursday May 17 2007, 4:57 pm: Apparently... Miss Thang has feelings for some of everybody!!! She is playin you and draggin you along from what I see. I hate to sound harsh but as a female, I know how wonderful we can be but I also know how triflin some of us can be too. You too seem young to me because that seems like a immature act on her part. You can't get her to break up with anybody. You seem like a nice guy and I know that you deserve better than that. I don't care how pretty she is. It's an ugly thing that she's doing and you shouldn't sit around waiting for somebody that is juss gonna be plotting to be someone else. Obviously, she can't make up her mind what she wants. So, let her play the field and do what she feels she has to do. But you need to get yourself together and move on with your own life because by her having you wrapped around her little finger, she is just draggin you right along with her games. You are wrong for wanting her to cheat on him with you. Don't you see that you cheated on you with someone else and then someone else and I'm sure that it'll keep going. Girls like that won't stop because they love the attention that they can. You don't want her per say... you just miss the feeling of being with someone that you can care about and that cares about you. And that's what you deserve. You may WANT her badly but what you NEED is someone that is gonna want and need you and only you. You need a girl that is gonna be hoenst and stay by your side no matter what you go through. I really hope that you don't fall for her games. Let me tell you somethin... my ex of almost 5 years did the same thing to me. I loved that man more than life itself but I had to let him go. I couldn't hold on to him forever but it was holding me back. But wheneva he came in my face tellin me he missed me and loved me, I fell right in his trap. Cuz as long as he had a good woman and his other females, he was already. But you can't have your cake and cookies with ice cream and expect not to get a stomach ache!!! You'll be fine on your own once you build yourself up to be somethin that any woman will be lucky enough to have! Good luck sweetie and let me know how it goes :) [ MizzDiva3203's advice column | Ask MizzDiva3203 A Question ]
christina answered Thursday May 17 2007, 4:35 pm: Dude listen to yourself. She's with a new guy after hooking up with you. Not to offend you or anything, but she sounds like a skank. You can do so much better. Honestly, if you get with her, she'll probably hurt you. Just like she is right now by being with somebody else. Forget about it & find someone who won't do that to you.
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Besides, if she cheats on him with you, she's only gonna be cheating on you as well when she does things with him. Either way, you're both getting cheated on. And don't try to get her to break up with him. If he found out, he'd be pissed. And put yourself in his shoes, if some guy convinced your girl to leave you, how would you feel? Pissed? Right. So don't do that to him. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
dulce8nina answered Thursday May 17 2007, 4:25 pm: i think you should jus let her be with this new guy..after all shell be back if your saying she has feelings for you. sometimes people just need to explore whatever it is thats out there in order to know that the right thing for us is somewhere else and maybe shell realize this. Dont try to brake them up because thats messed up and then again what goes around comes around!
hopefully this girl sees that the one she ants is you soon tho;]]
goodluck! [ dulce8nina's advice column | Ask dulce8nina A Question ]
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