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he's never mine to begin with..


Posted Wednesday December 18 2013, 1:51 am

Me and this guy started the same time in the company that we're working for. We go on the same floor but he's on another depertment, more on the far end of the floor. We became instant friends since he's my seat buddy on our orientation.

We have settled on each of our units, and have our own set of friends, but we regularly have lunch and dinner together. Even go home together. We even always talk and flirt over our communicator system.

We have never really defined our relationship. But I really like him, cause he's really funny, sweet, and nice to me.

I have this friend of mine, who also belongs to the same unit as I am, who also have a secret crush on him.

I know that I shouldn'...

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i want a guy to touch my boobs and ass without me telling him to


Posted Tuesday December 17 2013, 10:42 pm

i like a guy named josh and he likes me too. we dated last year secretly and only my family knew and a few friends from school. i broke up with him and he cried allday and i got sent to the councilers office. he also got in trouble by his mom for having a girlfriend.when i wanted to come over to hang out with his sister. he would end up in his pastor with me trying to kiss me but i wouldnt let him. he tried to kiss me on the bus but i wouldnt let him.!!! i really kliked him and this year hes at a differant school because hes a special ED kid he gets in to trouble a lot theres a problem his sister is dating my older brother.i really like him and i want him to touch me without telling him.!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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how to get over a Cheating ex boyfriend with a new gf


Posted Tuesday December 17 2013, 5:00 pm

My first real boyfriend, I met when I was 19yo, and he was 22. He was my first everything, although I wanted to wait til marriage. We dated for a year and a half, until my 21st bday where I can tell we were not on the same page. I put those thoughts aside, and within the next month or so things were weird between us, but nothing was said about it. I found messages and texts, and even pics sent between the two and he broke up with me. It's been two months since the breakup and I found out from close sources of his, that he's been cheating on me for a while. Today, it's been 3 months since the breakup, and he is dating that girl he cheated on me with. It hurts so bad, I just don't know what to do. I want to move on, but a piece of me is just...

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I've been wondering...


Posted Tuesday December 17 2013, 5:48 am

I'm a seventeen year old girl. I'm just a bit curious about this. You see there's this guy that since two years ago likes to bother me a lot - not in a really mean sort of way. He gives me nicknames acting as if I'll bother me but they're nothing like "four eyes" or anything like that. He still does it but not to a high extent as he used to - which was what bothered me quite a lot. He even bothered me about supposedly "liking" my sister. I played along thougg I did make it clear that I wasn't going to let guys near my little sis. I think my friends once started trying to hint something becuase they mentioned the fact that my sister is almost like an identical copy of me. I don't really have any experience with boys in th...

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Chat request


Posted Monday December 16 2013, 12:01 pm

Hi Natalka ,

I have found a chat room chatstep.com .very easy to use .just create a chat room with nickname and password. Although it says doesn't work well wit Internet explorer but it did. Very secure and private .I am in eastern time zone .please can you give me any time so I can create a chat room and send you the password to join in through my
c__x____t@yahoo.com account . Wow its proving a challenge to have a chat . This can easily put my communication skills in question Lol
sorry to bother you
Thanks .waiting for your response

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What Should I do?


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 6:55 pm

So 2 weeks ago I started speaking to this girl on facebook and twice in person for little bit. she knows i like her and i caught her few times staring at me but recently i found out she has boyfriend because i ask her over facebook message how's her revison going for exams and what she did on weekend . . . .in reply she said she was working most of the time then was out for dinner with her bf. i told her i was gutted that she's not single. she replied back again but totally ignored the part i said i'm gutted shes not single.

so i was wondering if she wants me to stop speaking to her or just to see how i react? i mean there's no sign of her bf what so ever. no picture on facebook or anything

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Giving up before we start


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 5:22 pm

23/F

So I met this guy at the gym (he works there) back in July and we recently began talking more and hanging out. It was pretty obvious that the two of us had feelings towards one another. I am leaving the area this coming summer to move back with my parents (I'm in graduate school and it's cheaper). It's about 40 minutes away from where I am now. He came over last night and before he left he kind of ended it between us because he doesn't want to catch stronger feelings if I'm leaving soon.

It's 6 months away and I feel like he's throwing away something that could be great without even trying. He automatically is thinking we will have to break up when I leave because that's what happened with his ex-gf. ...

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Still Craving Sex With Aunt!!


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 11:34 am

Some time back, i asked you guys what to do about my sick and stupid fantasy of having sex with my aunt who is 31 years old and extremely beautiful.I was then 13 years old, i am now 14 years old and i still want to have sex with my aunt. I feel so dirty because she is my blood related aunt. I am scared to confront her because i am scared of the repercussions but i can not continue like this because every time i see her, i feel like raping her . Someone please help me!!!!!!!

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I made a huge mistake


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 9:50 am

Hi. I am a thirty year old female. For the past three years of my life, I haven't dated. I haven't messed around with anyone, I just shut myself away... Because I just was tired of being hurt and let down... But this past weekend, I made a horrible mistake, I gotten drunk with my co- workers. And I had sex with my co- worker. And that night, he told me he liked me.... And wanted to have a relationship with me. But the next day, I found out everybody at my job knows. He started acted distinct, he told me he didn't want a relationship, because he wanted to hang out with his friends without me getting angry. But he still wanted to hang out, and get to know me, with a possibility of a relationship in the future. So we made plans to hang out yes...

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please answer my question


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 3:56 am

knight is love me?

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Attracted to my friend's younger sister...


Posted Sunday December 15 2013, 3:43 am

First of all, thanks for taking the time to read through this. I'll just get straight to the point. I'm a 24 (almost 25) year-old guy, and I have a roommate who's 19. We met at work, and are great friends. When I met his family, I felt a pretty strong emotional pull towards his sister. After a while, I realized I was pretty strongly attracted to her, and so far it seems like the feeling is mutual, though I've not actually asked her about it yet.

Without going through too much backstory, I found out during that time of growing attraction that she's actually sixteen, rather than the 17, close to 18 that I thought. Now, I'm really wanting to do the right thing here, not to mention without landing myself in jail, but my problem ...

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Nervous just thinking about Kissing! How do I overcome this?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 7:44 pm

Sooo, I just started dating this guy about a week ago. He's really nice and whatnot. But, my previous, and also first boyfriend, would get really mad at me whenever I didn't kiss him. It was my first kiss, but I don't like telling people that because it sucked (he's also my second boyfriend after my previous one). I hated it. I'm scared to kiss him. I told him why and he kind of backed off which made me feel better. I want to kiss him. I just freak out about it. He tells me I need to boost my confidence but I don't know what else to do. I know I'll have to do it someday. I'm even nervous about it just typing this! I've asked friends and everything, but they're no help. Someone with experience or something help me! :(

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does he like me?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 2:55 pm

Hi...* just a bit curious if this guy likes me....* today we were moving and °̩ had to ride with him and we were alone and he was talking dirty( witch °̩ love) stuff like toutching м̣̣y♐ boobs and getting me undressed...* he also told me some personal stuff to...* he told me he would't flirt but. °̩ think he did.... Help? What should °̩ do?

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Claustraphobic relationship


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 6:10 am

18/f
So I've been with a guy for two months now in a relationship.
He's really into me, and even talks of me being 'the one' and marriage etc.

However I recently went out clubbing and remembered how good the single life is. Not in a hoe type way-but how nice it is to be free and flirty.
I do love my boyfriend, but I just don't fancy him and (this sounds so harsh) I do think I could do better.
However I'm his first girlfriend and considering he thinks we'll be life partners, I don't want to hurt his feelings. He said he thought he'd be a loner all his life until he met me.

I used to think when I came to Uni that I wanted a relationship, now I'm in one all I want is to have a bit of ...

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Am I a frigid woman?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 2:57 am

I am 26, his 41 things have only just started. He is married with 3 kids but things have been over for awhile it is all for the kids. He is very sincere and genuine and I do trust him and I know he won't purposely hurt me. He is very affectionate and I guess he is going to want to take it to the next level some stage. I am a virgin and keeping feeling like I might be like a hermit or frigid or something like that. I just really don't no what to think I don't want this to ruin the best thing that has ever happened to me. Just some advice would really be appreciated. Also any questions you have I will answer.

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Does it really work if you don't contact an ex boyfriend?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 2:38 am

Does the no contact method really work for an ex boyfrien?

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No contact?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 2:02 am

So my ex boyfriend and i were together for over a year. We broke up for 3 months now and ive been trying to pull him back. Hes had major problems lately and i feel like because of how i keep like selfishly constantly askin him to get back with me that it gives him more stress. And due to that and our argument just not that angerily he told me he has no feelings for me anymore because hes so tired of all the problems in his life like fmaily problems and friends provlems.he told me tjat hes been trying to move on and forget about me but my constant texts make it harder for him. I was wonder if the no contact method would really work? Because i feel like if i dont contatc him he will forget me. Please give me advice on what i should do to get him back please.

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How do I get him to like me?


Posted Saturday December 14 2013, 12:03 am

There's a boy in my class named Brian. He always sits with me and my friends and makes jokes and always makes me laugh. He always pokes and tickles me in the side a lot, pretends to take my stuff and just mess with me, and recently I've started to like him. I always can't wait to get to school to see him and talk to him. One day he was telling me how much he liked my best friend (she doesn't like him) (she doesn't sit with us) I felt crushed when he said that but didn't say anything. I also get mad with another "friend" making fun of me and saying if he did like me, he'd just want to sleep with me. I don't want to ask him out because I'm afraid that he'll hate me and not want to be around me anymore. How can I get him to like me? (Btw I'm almost 16)

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I miss my boyfriend an hour after I'm with him. Normal?


Posted Friday December 13 2013, 9:16 pm

19/F So my best friend and I both realized we're attracted to each other about 4 months ago. After some complications, we started 'seeing' each other, and then became official a month ago. We've both said "I love you", and the relationship is going REALLY great. It may or may not be fast for some, but I feel like since we were best friends before, we have more of a head start than other couples. Anyway, I love him so much, and it's obvious to me and other people through his actions that he loves me too.

Thing is, we work together, go to the same college, and most of the time I'm his ride to those places since his car is busted. Not to mention I sleep at his house all the time. So we see each other A LOT. But when w...

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I know she is not telling me the whole truth. She is still hiding many things.


Posted Friday December 13 2013, 5:28 pm

I am married for around 8 yrs, but just after my marriage my wife has started creating issue with my family. We were a joint family and just because of her high Temper, she never looks where she is standing in the house or outside, when she is angry she will just burst out with very high volume. Also i recently came to know that she has been physical with 2 to 3 guys before we got married. It came to my notice that some one msg her and I read it. She told lies that she dont kneow, but she use to get the msgs mostly daily so when I focused her she confused that she dont know who is the guy msg but yes she has been physical with some guys and that to 1 night stand. My whole life is gone for toss. I cannot tell anyone about this nor can do any...

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