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I've been wondering...
I'm a seventeen year old girl. I'm just a bit curious about this. You see there's this guy that since two years ago likes to bother me a lot - not in a really mean sort of way. He gives me nicknames acting as if I'll bother me but they're nothing like "four eyes" or anything like that. He still does it but not to a high extent as he used to - which was what bothered me quite a lot. He even bothered me about supposedly "liking" my sister. I played along thougg I did make it clear that I wasn't going to let guys near my little sis. I think my friends once started trying to hint something becuase they mentioned the fact that my sister is almost like an identical copy of me. I don't really have any experience with boys in that matter - I have boys as friends, just never had a boyfriends - and can't really tell. Just wondering if he actually does have a crush on me - I'll let it be clear that I don't like him that way.
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It's hard to tell. He might just be the type of guy who sees you as a friend and likes to tease you. But of course, there is the 50/50 chance that he likes you.
If he makes a move or gets flirty with you, then you just need to respond the opposite. Nothing mean or anything, but nothing to make him think that you're interested too. You'll see girls leading guys on all the time. It's good that you want to make it clear that you don't see him that way. If he straight up tells you that he likes you, then just say that you just see him as a friend.
But really, it's a 50/50 chance so it's quite hard to tell because some guys do like to tease the girls they like but also some just like to tease their friends.
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You could safely guess that since he takes the time to interact with you in such ways that there is an initial interest and attraction to you. Whether that can fully develope to really liking the person takes more time spent hanging together such as dating. If you enjoy the friendship but dont feel attracted romantically then just continue on as you have been. If he gets brave enough to ask you out, then tell him, you value his friendship but don't have romantic feelings in return.
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It seems like he probably likes you but doesnt know how to say it or is afraid if you like him back or not.Some guys just dont know how to show their feelings so you just have to be understanding and ignore him if you dont like him that way.
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