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What Should I do?
So 2 weeks ago I started speaking to this girl on facebook and twice in person for little bit. she knows i like her and i caught her few times staring at me but recently i found out she has boyfriend because i ask her over facebook message how's her revison going for exams and what she did on weekend . . . .in reply she said she was working most of the time then was out for dinner with her bf. i told her i was gutted that she's not single. she replied back again but totally ignored the part i said i'm gutted shes not single.
so i was wondering if she wants me to stop speaking to her or just to see how i react? i mean there's no sign of her bf what so ever. no picture on facebook or anything
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I wouldn't say she wants you to stop speaking to her. I really don't know why you'd get that conclusion unless she's acting short and doesn't seem like she wants to talk to you.
If I told a guy that I was working then had dinner with my bf, I wouldn't just say it to get a reaction if that was the truth of what I did. If the guy told me he was upset that I wasn't single, I'd probably ignore it too. It's uncomfortable and she probably just wants to pretend that you didn't say that so she can continue talking to you without it being weird.
If a guy told me they were interested in me and I had a boyfriend, it just wouldn't be ok for me to continue talking to them.
As for no sign of her boyfriend being on facebook, that could be for different reasons. Who knows why really. Maybe she just doesn't want to share her relationships on Facebook, who knows.
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It could be just to get a reaction, but this is unlikely. People don't always post things about their relationship on facebook. Some people don't want to and enjoy keeping private things to themselves, so this doesn't necessarily mean that her boyfriend is fictional.
People often don't talk about things when it makes them uncomfortable. She talks to you, so I wouldn't assume that she doesn't want to. It seems like she doesn't want to talk about your feelings for her specifically. You told her you liked her in more than one way, so I think you've done all you can in that department. She knows and is already in a relationship, so the ball is in her court, so to speak.
If you want to be a friend to her, then go right on ahead. If you just want a relationship, you'll have to understand that she doesn't seem to want the same thing.
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